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Yom Kippur and Rosh Hashanah: The Jewish High Holy Days, explained

Yom Kippur and Rosh Hashanah are the Jewish High Holy Days. They're the two most important holidays of the year, and are very differently observed.

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Every member of my synagogue knows where to find my family during Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. We always sit in the front row of the extended seating section of our New Jersey temple, far enough away so we can lightly talk during services but not sofar back that we can't see anything. Mostly we sit there because it's the preeminent, prestigiouspeople-watching spot. What can I say? The Oliver family likes being in-the-know.

I live in Washington, D.C. The last time I went home for Rosh Hashanah the Jewish New Year was in2019. I couldn't tell you anything meaningful about the service that year. Consider methen a jaded Jew: Bring on the customs (and food, especially the food), spare me your thoughts and prayers.

But something changed during the pandemic. Because everything changed during the pandemic.

When I waltzed into Rosh Hashanah services fully vaccinated and masked up, as you should betoo I felt something I didn't expect.

Like I belonged. Like I was home.

ImDavid Oliver, an entertainment reporterfocusing on diversity and equalityat USA TODAY, and Id like to welcome you to this weeks "This Is America,"a newsletter about race, identity and how they shape our lives. If you're observing Yom Kippur today, I hope you have an easy and meaningful fast. If you don't know what the heck I'm talking about, read this (and the rest of this newsletter).

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A special note: USA TODAY is collaborating with Tougaloo College for a free virtual event on the roles law enforcement, media, government and education leaders serve in civil rights movements. This is the first of three virtual events USA TODAY will host as part of the Seven Days of 1961 project. The event is scheduled for Wednesday, Sept. 29, at 7 p.m. EDT. Register here. Read more about the event.

I neverwantedto go to Hebrew school growing up. It was just something I did. Like clearing my plate after dinner, feeding my pet fish or taking out the trash. A chore.

Sure, I was proud to be Jewish. I didn't know any other way to be.

The years skated by and my Jewish identity faded further into the background. My identity as a gay man solely shaped me in my early 20s, and while I appreciated Jewish customs,I didn't feel a deep connection to my faith.

But then I suddenly couldn't go home because of the pandemic. My family and I threw together alarge Zoom seder for Passover in 2020, followed by a less enthusiasticone in spring 2021. The Jewish traditions I took for granted slipped out of my fingers.

Conversational chaos, prayers and hope: My Passover seder on Zoom in the time of coronavirus

When the time came to make plans for Rosh Hashanah this year,I knew exactly where to go:back to New Jerseyand back to temple.

But would the delta variant prevent my fully vaccinated familyfrom feeling safe enough to attend services in-person? We went back and forthbut ultimatelyfelt comfortable attending a fully vaccinated and masked service.

My grandfathersaved our people-watching spot for us,and I spotted faces old and new my Hebrew school education director,family friends,a new rabbi.

The rabbi's sermon focused on how easy it could be to infuse our day-to-day lives with Jewish rituals. Say a prayer before you go to bed, for example. While the prayers may not be for me, I'm findingother ways to practice. For starters: writing about it.

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My colleague Lindsay Deutsch eloquently wrote about ignorance among younger generations about Judaism late last year particularly regarding the Holocaust.One survey found 63% of millennials and Gen Zwere unaware 6 million Jewish people were killed. Anti-Semitism regularly pops into pop culture.

I have receivedhate mail for being Jewish and reported an incident to the police after someone threatened my life. Sickening, vile, evil.

It's not that I didn't care about any of this before. But sitting there in temple, signing the ketubah (Jewish wedding contract) at a close friend's wedding recently and sitting at my desk now, I must speak up. Louder than before can you hear me screaming off this page? I AM SPEAKING UP.

I don't feel scared about someone hating me for being Jewish. I feel proud in a way Ididn't know possible. Proud of my family, of my community, of my identity.

I usually fast on Yom Kippur, the Jewish day of atonement. This year I'd like to apologize for many things, one of which is my passive take on being Jewish. Time for more action.

Will 2022 be the year I finally join a synagogue in Washington? Maybe. But I know that no matter where I go, my heart is a Jewish one.

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