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What Hasidim May Need To Unlearn When Listening To Kids After Trauma – Forward

Posted By on December 21, 2019

This article originally appeared in the Yiddish Forverts.

The morning after the Jersey City grocery store shooting last week, I waited impatiently to hear details about the victims and how the Hasidic community was coping with the tragedy.

According to news sources, the fifty boys in the school right next door to the store laid on the floor throughout the three-hour ordeal. A video taken by one of the teachers as he stood by the window demonstrates just how close the shooting actually was to the school.

Now begins the work of helping the children heal. Sruli Fried, a social worker with the crisis intervention unit at Chai Lifeline, met the children, teachers and administrators to help them cope with the psychological effects of having witnessed the attack.

What he had to say might come as news to parents inside the Hasidic community, where any mention of a tragedy is inevitably followed by the phrases rakhmone litslan, may the Merciful One save us, or khas vesholem, God forbid. These traditional expressions are not just words; they encompass an entire worldview taken by the Jewish people for thousands of years. When Jews say rakhmone litslan, its a way of spiritually protecting the Jewish people from further calamity - but it also stifles further conversation about it.

Yet Fried emphasized how important it was for the parents of those children to give them emotional support by letting them speak about what they heard and saw even if they say it ten or twenty times.

Many parents think that if children speak a lot about a tragedy, it creates even more anxiety, but actually its just the opposite, Fried said.

He added that some children may not want to talk about the shooting right away, instead could want to sleep with their parents weeks later: Thats when they need you more than ever.

For parents outside the Hasidic community, Frieds suggestions are obvious. Articles or how-to books on raising children frequently emphasize the importance of validating a childs feelings, no matter how exaggerated they might be - especially after a traumatic event.

But inside the community, taking his advice means parents should be careful about saying things like rakhmone litslan, which could discourage a child from speaking because it can easily be interpreted as Mommy and Daddy dont want to hear this.

The question is, will the parents of these children be able to transform the way they speak about such horrific events? Is it possible to restrain oneself from using an expression that comes as naturally as breathing the air? Just like most of us automatically say thank you when someone opens a door for us, or Sorry! when inadvertently stepping on the toe of a fellow train passenger, it may not be easy for the parents of these children to restrain themselves from adding rakhmone litslan upon hearing the shocking details.

Im sure that parents will adjust to this new way of relating to their children, but it will take time. By patiently coaching them, and doing so in their own language, Yiddish, experts like Sruli Fried are helping pave the way for Hasidic parents to learn what they need to do to help their child heal.

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4 Plays and Musicals to Go to in N.Y.C. This Weekend – The New York Times

Posted By on December 21, 2019

Our guide to plays and musicals coming to New York stages and a few last-chance picks of shows that are about to close. Our reviews of open shows are at nytimes.com/reviews/theater.

GRAND HORIZONS at the Hayes Theater (previews start on Dec. 23; opens on Jan. 23). The playwright Bess Wohl (Continuity, Small Mouth Sounds) makes a commitment to Broadway. In this new play, seen this past summer at the Williamstown Theater Festival, an elderly couple, freshly installed in a retirement community, contemplate divorce. Leigh Silverman directs a remarkable cast including Jane Alexander, James Cromwell, Ben McKenzie and Ashley Park. 2st.com

[Read about the events that our other critics have chosen for the week ahead.]

CYRANO at the Daryl Roth Theater (closes on Dec. 22). The director Erica Schmidts adaptation of Edmond Rostands Cyrano de Bergerac, with music by two members of the National, lays down its sword. While Ben Brantleys review described this New Group show as somber and monotonous, he praised its star, Peter Dinklage, as being by no means a disappointment as the witty, wily and dangerously underestimated title character. 800-745-3000, thenewgroup.org

FIRES IN THE MIRROR at the Pershing Square Signature Center (closes on Dec. 22). Anna Deavere Smiths 1992 anatomization of the Crown Heights riots ends its run. In Saheem Alis revival, the piece is handed over to Michael Benjamin Washington, who performs verbatim monologues based on interviews with African-Americans and Hasidic Jews as well as others. The piece still, Ben Brantley wrote, makes you catch your breath and shake your head in sorrow. 212-244-7529, signaturetheatre.org

THE HALF-LIFE OF MARIE CURIE at the Minetta Lane Theater (closes on Dec. 22). Lauren Gundersons play about chemistry onstage and otherwise ends its experiment. Francesca Faridany stars as Marie Curie with Kate Mulgrew as her friend Hertha Ayrton. Elisabeth Vincentelli wrote that the show, directed by Gaye Taylor Upchurch, is at its best when it lets the two stars strut their stuff. 800-982-2787, thehalflifeofmariecurie.com

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Black Antisemitism Is Not Inherently Left-Wing – Jewish Currents

Posted By on December 21, 2019

ON DECEMBER 10TH, David Anderson and Francine Graham charged into a kosher market in Jersey City, gunning down two members of the local Satmar Hasidic community and a shop employee (an immigrant from Ecuador) and engaging in a protracted shootout with police before dying in a hail of bullets. The couple, who are also prime suspects in the killing of an Uber driver and an undercover police officer prior to the market shooting, were quickly revealed to have held past ties to a Harlem-based sect of the Black Hebrew Israelite (BHI) movement; it was also revealed that Anderson had made antisemitic posts on social media.

In the aftermath of the shooting, many publications and pundits zeroed in on the apparent BHI connection, collapsing a diverse constellation of African American religious sects into a single hate group. For some, this connection seemed to reinforce a broader narrative of Black antisemitism that right-wing pundits often conflate with left antisemitism, spuriously grouping all Black people with the political left. Erielle Davidson, a writer at the right-wing website The Federalist, described the killers as believers of a left-wing, anti-semitic ideology. Seth Mandel, the executive editor of the Washington Examiner, used an offensive Facebook comment made by a Black Jersey City Board of Education member in the aftermath of the killing to assert that [i]ntersectionalismMandels misspelling of the Black feminist framework of intersectionalityremains an excuse to murder Jews. And both leftists and Black Jews have been unfairly held responsible for a killer whose views and actions we abhor.

Antisemitism can and does exist in left-wing spaces, including those in the Black community. But conflating all Black anti-Jewish attitudes with the left is dangerous, turning a complex problem that occurs accross the political spectrum into a mere cudgel for the right. Further, a poorly defined concept of Black antisemitism not only risks promulgating racist stereotypes about African Americanstreating us as inherently violent, criminal, and irrationalbut also obscures the specifics of the various ways antisemitism can manifest, making it harder for us to fight back.

Early reports have linked Anderson to BHI sects, as well as Nation of Islam (NOI) leader Louis Farrakhan. Indeed, Anderson, who used the name Dawad Macabee online, referenced teachings common in some BHI sects, which identify with Biblical narratives about Jews while claiming that modern European Jews are usurpers of this ancient Hebrew identity. His posts frequently characterized both Jews and white Christians as Edomites, a term used in some BHI teachings to refer to enemies of God. He also frequently referenced the King James Bible and asserted that King James was a Black mana common belief in BHI sects.

But a closer look at Andersons social media profiles reveal that he was deeply skeptical of both BHI and Farrakhan, and seemingly more extreme than either. On Facebook, he warned, All Israelite camps have proven to mislead people, and in one post he dismisses Farrakhan (whom he called Farrah-Con) as overly friendly to Jewsa telling comment, given Farrakhans well-documented history of antisemitic rhetoric.

An investigation by the Anti-Defamation League into Andersons social media presence complicates the picture even further, revealing the often contradictory ways that antisemitism can manifest in the African American community. Anderson drew his beliefs from a diverse array of Black separatist ideologies as well as popular online conspiracy theories, many of which are also common among far-right and white nationalist groups. His posts included references to the Masons, the Illuminati, and the eugenicist Khazar theory, as well as violent homophobia and misogyny. This combination belies easy assumptions about a monolithic left-wing Black anti-Jewish bias.

But even if Anderson had been a more orthodox BHI or NOI adherent, that wouldnt make his ideology left-wing. Though movements like BHI and NOI are often labelled as such because of their association with theologies of Black liberation, they are actually culturally conservative and invested in patriarchal family values, homophobia, free market capitalism, and oppostion to abortion and miscegenation. Many of their most ardent critics are feminist and left-wing voices in the Black community, from Angela Davis to young Black Lives Matter organizers to media figures who challenge them regularly.

Black separatist religious movements like BHI seek to subvert white supremacist Christian teachings enforced during slavery, often by reversing rather than rejecting racial hierarchies. Similarly, NOI casts Europeans, including European Jews, as the racially inferior creation of an evil Black scientist named Yacub. The relationship of these groups to Jewish identity is complex, as many Black Americans relate to the Exodus stories of freedom from slavery and seeking a Promised Land, while also holding ideas about Jewish people that are influenced by Christian antisemitism. The claim of groups like BHI of being the real Jews is similar to Christian supersessionist theology, which views Christians as the true inheritors of the covenant between God and the Jewish people. The scapegoating of Jews for killing Christ, a belief promoted by Farrahkhan, has been traced by some scholars, such as the Jewish journalist and Farrakhan biographer Arthur Magida, to Protestant Christian teachings during slavery. In both cases, this Black antisemitism simply reflects broader, and deeply rooted, American antisemitism.

Much like early white American antisemites, Anderson made Jews scapegoats for systemic inequality, blaming us for everything from police brutality to economic exploitation. It is unfortunately not uncommon for marginalized people to respond to real tensions around issues like class and race by blaming another marginalized group rather than the structures of oppression themselves. Reactionary Black separatism should be understood as one of many diverse responses to white supremacyone that tragically mirrors the ideology that it claims to fight. It is not a stand-in for all Black liberation movements, and its false and misleading to cast it as left-wing.

David Anderson and Francine Graham alone are responsible for their biases and their deadly actions. But as we unpack what motivates such terrible violence, we cannot paper over the perpetrators actual beliefs and cultural context for the sake of a politically expedient narrative. Using Black antisemitism as a cudgel against the left further divides the Jewish and Black communities at the expense of actually understanding and fighting antisemitism. It also too often erases the ways that Black antisemitism is interconnected with the antisemitic and anti-Black history of the United States, foregoing actual analysis in favor of racial stereotyping and divisive rhetoric.

The violent ideology of the Jersey City shooters reflects centuries of history in which Black and Jewish communities have been divided and pitted against each other under a system that harms us all. Both antisemitism and racism can only be combated through solidarity and mutual empathy among marginalized communities, which the rights inflammatory framing of incidents like the Jersey City shooting threatens to undermine.

Rebecca Pierce is a Black and Jewish filmmaker and writer from the San Francisco Bay Area.

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Killing ourselves with hate | TheHill – The Hill

Posted By on December 21, 2019

The recent shooting inside a kosher supermarket in Jersey City, N.J., is the latest example that we Americans are literally killing ourselves with hatred for our neighbors.

It is just the latest in an ever-lengthening litany of putrid examples showing the terrible consequences of hating the other, rather than loving in our hearts all of those created in Gods image. The facts surrounding the murder of innocents just across the river from New York City illustrate how pervasive this problem is today.

The alleged perpetrators of this heinous crime a man and a woman apparently were motivated by their deep hatred of Jews. Information continues to emerge that speaks to the motivation behind this callous crime, including that they reportedly were linked to the Black Hebrew Israelites who hold anti-Semitic beliefs.

The violence itself was bad enough, and critics who seek to downplay the pervasiveness of anti-Semitism in the United States could easily write this incident off as an isolated anomaly. But it was the television footage of the immediate aftermath of the crime that sent shivers down my spine.

A succession of black neighbors railed against the community of ultra-orthodox Jews who moved to Jersey City in recent years to escape soaring real estate prices in nearby Williamsburg. In a clear and shocking example of blaming the victim, these people said that shootings such as this never happened until Jewish residents came to their city. I blame the Jews, said one bystander, who said her children were stuck at school on security lockdown because of Jew shenanigans.

It was not too long ago that predominantly black and Jewish communities were connected through friendship and solidarity, owing much to their shared involvement in the civil rights movement.

But, as is often the case for closed-minded politicians looking to score cheap points, the Jersey City shooting quickly became a topic of misinformation and misplaced blame. Rep. Rashida TlaibRashida Harbi TlaibTlaib to Republicans: 'Your boy called Ukraine and bribed them' McCarthy says impeachment 'has discredited the United States House of Representatives' Hillicon Valley: House panel unveils draft of privacy bill | Senate committee approves bill to sanction Russia | Dems ask HUD to review use of facial recognition | Uber settles sexual harassment charges for .4M MORE (D-Mich.), erroneously tweeted that white supremacy kills before deleting the tweet perhaps after realizing that the black shooters were not white supremacists.

Tlaibs decision to weigh in on this tragedy with controversial comments should come as little surprise, given that she attacked Republican congressmen who voted to condemn the Boycott Divestment and Sanction (BDS) movement against Israel as having forgot what country they represent. This, from a congresswoman who posed for photos with the leader of a pro-Palestinian group and has described the founding of Israel as a crime and equated Zionism with Nazism.

Orthodox Jews in Jersey City certainly live an insular life, focused on strict Biblical tenets. Since arriving in their new neighborhood they have, out of desire and necessity, set up synagogues, religious schools for their children and supermarkets to stock kosher food. Were they perfect neighbors? Of course not, since no person is ever an ideal citizen 100 percent of the time. But the families from Hasidic sects based in Brooklyn say the mostly black residents of the neighborhood welcomed them when they settled in.

There is nothing in the world that justifies shooting people to death. The supermarket slaughter showcases the worst of modern-day America, and it illustrates that anti-Semitism and xenophobia are alive and well.

The problem is not the role of religious minorities in a town, nor is it the racial makeup of the criminals who carry out such disgusting deeds. The source of the issue is the hatred that resides in the hearts of far too many Americans. Until we address this sad reality and make strides to correct it, we can expect to see more tragedies that cut short innocent lives and make this a more dangerous, divided society.

Armstrong Williams (@ARightSide) is the owner and manager of Howard Stirk Holdings I & II Broadcast Television Stations and the 2016 Multicultural Media Broadcast Owner of the Year. He is the author of Reawakening Virtues.

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What Do the Talmud and the Internet Have in Common? More, and Less, Than One Might Think – Mosaic

Posted By on December 21, 2019

The sprawling nature of the Talmud, where discussion of one topic leads seamlessly to another, sometimes with only the loosest of connections, has invited comparison with the Internet, where a reader can follow one link after another to roam farther and farther afield from the subject with which he or she began. But the comparison only goes so far, writes Gil Student:

While there is some truth to this abstract comparison, [the differences] deserve our attention as well. [The Talmud] begins with page 2a of Tractate Brakhot and continues for 2,711 pages until it concludes with Nidah 73a. Of course, you can start anywhere in the middle, particularly at the beginning of any of the 37 tractates. But it has a discrete beginning and end. . . . By contrast, the Internet has no entrance or exit. Every article contains links to many others. Every person has his own beginning and only stops when other concerns beckon.

[In studying the Talmud], we study the text, perhaps with additional tools when available, but always remaining on, or at least returning to, the page. The Internet, [by contrast], has no anchor, sending you across the globe with endless links.

Finally, notes Student, while the Internet encourages social isolation, the Talmud is customarily studied communallywith a study partner, or in a class, or even individually in the public space of the synagogue or study hall.

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Siyum Hashas Completing 2,711 pages of the Talmud – Canadian Jewish News

Posted By on December 21, 2019

On Saturday, Jan. 4, 2020, corresponding to 7 Tevet 5780, thousands of people around the world will celebrate as they finish studying the 73rdpage of Tractate Niddah and thereby complete their study of the Talmud, known as Siyum Hashas. The very next day, they will begin learning the first Tractate of the Talmud, Berachot, and they will continue in this shared learning experience until the entire Talmud is next completed on Saturday 2 Sivan 5787 (June 7, 2027)!

The largest siyum celebration will take place on January 1 at the MetLife stadium (expected attendance 93,000) in East Rutherford, New Jersey, 13 km west of New York City. The Toronto siyum will take place on January 5 at the Metro Toronto Convention Centre. All told, approximately 200,000 participants are expected at venues across the globe.

Siyum Hashas Daf Yomi Through The Decades

Rabbi Meir Shapiro of Lublin, Poland, could not have dreamed of those numbers back in the 1920s when he had a ground-breaking idea: to unite Jews around the globe by having each of them study exactly the same text of Talmud on a daily basis. By reading a double-sided page (Daf) a day (Yomi), they would complete the Talmuds 2,711 pages in approximately seven and a half years.

Written in Hebrew and Aramaic, the Talmud is the often terse compendium of law, logic and philosophy that became the foundation for modern Judaism. In Discovering the Talmud, Dr. Eric Chevlen does a great job explaining its importance and the challenges that the work poses to modern student.

Its subject matter is often abstruse, ranging from such exalted topics as the contents of the phylacteries worn by a decidedly non-corporeal divinity, to such humble ones as the direction a person should face while defecating. Its logic is precise, indeed sharply exacting, but idiosyncratic. There is no obvious order to its discussion, it has neither index nor table of contents, not even punctuation, and it is riddled with unexplained abbreviations. Oh, yes, one other thing: there are no vowels.

The 12thSiyum Hashas at MetLife Stadium, Aug. 1, 2012

The idea for holding a celebratory event to mark the completion of a substantial body of Jewish learning stretches back to the Talmud itself. The scholar Abbaye would make a special festive meal for anyone who completed a tractate (a section of the Talmud.) Rabbi Reuven Lauffer points out that according to the Midrash, after being granted infinite wisdom by God, King Solomon made a festive meal for all of his servants. This, notes the Midrash, is the source for making a celebration upon completing the Torah. Just as the increase of wisdom of one man was a cause for celebration for his entire entourage, so too is the increase of Torah knowledge a reason to celebrate.

And what is the celebration like? Uriel Heilman was a fly on the wall at the last siyum (also at the MetLife Stadium) and presented his own Play by play at the Siyum HaShas. Some observations:

6:57 Pulling into MetLife Stadium. Instead of tailgaters in the parking lot it, its full of Hatzolah ambulances. Are they on the job or just here for the party?

9:00 Big cheer as video narrator declares this the biggest Siyum HaShas ever. A great American palace of sport has been transformed into a sanctuary of the spirit! and May it hasten the arrival of Moshiach tzidkeinu the messiah.

9:06 Walking around the stadium, the N.J. State Troopers seem to be in a good mood. This must be an easy crowd for them. No scent of weed wafting through the air to track down, no fights in the stands, no flashing in the upper deck, no wilding on the ramps. Heck, theres no alcohol here. What are they going to make a lchaim on when they finish this thing?

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The Bostoner Rebbe Levi Yitzchok Horowitz, ztl, at the 2005 Siyum

Jonathan Mark was also there and added this poignant observation. High in the heavens, a satellite carried a closed-circuit broadcast of the Agudah siyum to more than 100 cities and more than 120,000 Jews. In the wee hours after midnight, the siyum was being watched via satellite in a room at 57 Lubitrovska Street in Lublin, Rav Meir Shapiros old yeshiva, where the first Daf Yomi Siyum HaShas was held in 1930, seven years after Rav Shapiro first suggested Daf Yomi to an Agudah convention.

There was a 1938 siyum in that Lublin yeshiva, but by 1939, the yeshiva building was being used by the Nazis, and Daf Yomi was being studied, often by heart, in ghettos and cattle cars. The Siyum HaShas in 1945 was held in the November chill of a Displaced Persons camp in Felderfing, Germany.

Why do so many people drag themselves out of bed, day in and day out, year after year, to learn the Talmud? The late Herman Wouk, author of This is My God and The Winds of War, explains why he made the commitment (in this page cleverly laid out like a page of Talmud.)

Because by now the Talmud is in my bones. Its elegant and arcane ethical algebra, its soaked-in quintessential Jewishness, its fun, its difficulty, its accumulative virtue all balance against the cost in time and the so-called remoteness from reality. Above and beyond all its other intellectual and cultural values, the Talmud is, for people like us, identity, pure and ever springing.

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‘Daf Yomi’: What Is the Legal Age of Maturity for Jewish Women? – Tablet Magazine

Posted By on December 21, 2019

Literary criticAdam Kirschis readinga page of Talmuda day, along with Jews around the world.

Each volume of the Koren Talmud Bavli comes in a dust jacket that bears an image related to its contents. Avoda Zara, about idol worship, features a marble bust of a Greek god; Menachot, about meal offerings, has an illustration of a sacred vessel full of flour. So I was curious, as Tractate Nidda approached, how the publishers would choose to illustrate a volume whose main subject is menstrual blood. Their clever solution was to use an image of figs, for reasons that Daf Yomi readers discovered in last weeks reading.

In the mishna on Nidda 47a, the sages offer a parable comparing the development of a woman to the growth of a fig tree: A girl is like an unripe fig, a young woman is like a ripening fig, and an adult is like a ripe fig. For the rabbis, this metaphor is meant to clarify practical legal issues about how the rights and responsibilities of a woman change as she gets older. Not all of these issues pertain to menstruation, but it makes sense that they are discussed in Tractate Nidda, since menstruation is an indicator of puberty. And puberty, for boys as well as girls, is the key dividing line between minors, who are not halachically responsible for their words and actions, and adults, who are.

As a child, a girl is under the legal control of her father, which means that he owns any object she finds or any wages she earns. As we saw much earlier in the Daf Yomi cycle, in Tractate Nedarim, a father also has the power to nullify a minor childs vows to Godpromises to avoid eating certain foods, for instance, or not to cut her hair. There is a similar principle in American law, where a minor cant enter into a contract.

But while American law defines minority in simple chronological termsin most states, you become a legal adult at age 18things are more complicated in the Talmud. To become a legal adult in Jewish law, a boy must be 13 years old and have grown two pubic hairs, while a girl must be 12 years old and have grown two pubic hairs. Obviously its not the possession of hair itself that matters; rather, this is a sign of the beginning of puberty, which is supposed to bring greater mental and emotional maturity. That is why the ages are different for boys and girls: According to Yehuda HaNasi, the Holy One, Blessed be He, granted a woman a greater understanding than a man, so she attains mental maturity sooner. (Rav Shmuel bar Yitzhak dissents from this view, however, arguing that since boys study Torah and girls dontat least, they didnt in talmudic timescleverness enters boys minds earlier.)

But if a young girl is an unripe fig and a girl older than 12 is a ripe one, who is what the Talmud calls a ripening fig? The answer comes in Nidda 45b, where the mishna explains that for both girls and boys, there is a transitional phase between childhood and adulthood. This period begins one year before the age of majorityat 11 for girls and at 12 for boysand involves a special relationship to vows. (In general, the rabbis strongly discourage the taking of vows, since they create an opportunity for an unnecessary sin.)

The vows of children are legally invalid, even if they claim to know exactly what they are doing: Even if they said: We know in Whose name we vowed their vow is not a vow. After the age of majority, on the other hand, a persons vows are binding even if he claims not to have fully understood the significance of vowing: even if they said: We do not know in Whose name we vowed their vow is a vow. But during the transitional year, the validity of a minors vow is decided on a case-by-case basis. They must be examined by a sage to determine whether they understand what it means to take a vow to God. This is in keeping with Numbers 6:2, which says, when a man or a woman shall clearly utter a vow: Only if a minor understands the full meaning of the vow does it count as clearly uttered.

This transitional period acknowledges the possibility that a child who is on the cusp of adulthood might be what the Talmud calls discriminating. But it also creates a problem for the legal definition of adulthood, which involves both chronological and biological milestones. Ordinarily, even if a girl under the age of 12 or a boy under the age of 13 develops two pubic hairs, they do not become legal adults, because these are not considered to be true pubic hairs. Rather, they are treated like hairs that grow on a mole, which can appear before the onset of puberty.

But what if someone grows two pubic hairs during the year when they are a discriminating minor? If they are mentally mature enough to take vows and physically mature enough to show signs of puberty, why shouldnt they become legal adults even before the age of 12 or 13? This is a matter of dispute among the rabbis: Rabbi Yochanan says that if a discriminating minor grows pubic hairs, they ought to be punished for their sins like an adult, but Rabbi Zeira disagrees, and it is his view that prevails.

Another problem arises when the rabbis ask about the signs of puberty in girls. Ordinarily, puberty is defined by what the rabbis call the signs belowthe growth of two pubic hairs. But women, unlike men, also have the signs abovethe development of breasts. This is defined differently by different sagesfor instance, when a fold appears below the breast, or when the areola darkens. The question then arises whether its possible for a girl to possess the upper signs without the lower signs, and if so, which should determine whether she is a legal adult. After some debate, the rabbis finally decide that it is impossible for a girl to develop breasts before she grows pubic hair. If that appears to be the case, we read in the Gemara in Nidda 48b, it can only be because the hairs appeared but later they fell out.

Who is responsible for ascertaining whether a girl has grown two pubic hairs? The rabbis never consider trusting a girls own report, and one might assume that she must submit to the examination of a sagejust as the sages are the ones who examine blood-stained clothes to determine if a woman is menstruating. But the idea of adult men examining the bodies of young women would obviously go against talmudic sexual morality, which is based on preserving the modesty of women and avoiding the temptation of men.

Accordingly, the Gemara states that the determination of whether a girl has pubic hair is made based on the testimony of women. Some sages would entrust this task to their own female relatives: Rabbi Eliezer would give the girls to his wife to examine, and Rabbi Yishmael would give the girls to his mother to examine. This is a notable departure from usual halakhic practice, which requires the testimony of two male witnesses. But when patriarchal values collide, it seems, the rabbis are willing to suspend male authority in order to preserve female purity.

It feels strange to say this, but after seven and a half years, this is the next to last column in my series about Daf Yomi. The cycle concludes on Jan. 4 with the last page in Tractate Nidda, before starting all over again the next day with the first page of Berachot. Next month, in my final column, I will reflect on my long talmudic journey and on the Siyum HaShas, which will bring together90,000 Jews to celebrate the Daf Yomi experience on New Years Day.

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Adam Kirsch embarked on theDaf Yomicycle of daily Talmud study inAugust 2012. To catch up on the complete archive,click here.

Adam Kirsch is a poet and literary critic, whose books include The People and the Books: 18 Classics of Jewish Literature.

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Yosef HaTzaddik And The Maccabees – The Jewish Press – JewishPress.com

Posted By on December 21, 2019

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The Shelah (1560-1630) writes that every special date on the Jewish calendar is related to the parashiyos read in close proximity to it. What, then, is the connection between Vayeishev and Chanukah? The following is one answer:

When Yosef went to check on his brothers at the bequest of his father, he met a man identified by our Sages as the angel Gavriel who told him that his brothers traveled from here to a place called Doson. Rashi explains that these words really mean, They have removed themselves from brotherhoodto seek legal means to put you to death.

The Ramban maintains that Gavriel did not actually say these words; in fact, he spoke ambiguously so that Yosef wouldnt understand the underlying message. For had Yosef understood, he would not have endangered himself by traveling to Doson. However, Rashi (in his commentary on the parashah and in his commentary to Sotah 13b), implies that Gavriel actually said these words to Yosef, and Yosef proceeded to Doson nevertheless.

Evidently, Rashi and Ramban disagree concerning a major halachic point. The Talmud (Sanhedrin 74a) tells us that a Jew, if threatened with death, should give up his life unless the sin he is asked to transgress is idolatry, sexual immorality, or murder (and as long as the threat is not made before 10 or more Jews). What if a Jew wishes to be machmir, though? Can he give up his life rather than commit a lesser sin?

The Rambam writes, Anyone concerning whom it is stated, He should transgress and not let himself be killed if he lets himself be killed and does not transgress, he is guilty of a mortal sin (Hilchos Yesodei HaTorah 5:4). Tosafos and other authorities, however, maintain that the Talmud merely means that a person may transgress any mitzvah except for three if his life is in danger, not that he must. Indeed, the Kesef Mishneh writes that it is meritorious to give up ones life even to avoid committing a lesser sin.

The Ramban seems to agree with the Rambam; thats why he argues that Gavriels words were ambiguous. Had they been clear, Yosef would not have proceeded to Doson, in the Rambans opinion. Rashi, on the other hand, evidently maintains that giving up ones life rather than commit a lesser sin is meritorious, which is why he can maintain that Gavriels meaning was clear.

Interestingly, even according to the Rambam, if an exceptionally pious and G-d-fearing man sees that his generation is degenerate in a certain matter, he may sanctify G-ds name and sacrifice himself even to avoid a minor mitzvah so that people learn from his example.

Accordingly, its possible that Yosef felt his brothers lacked respect for their father (witness their hatred due to their fathers favoritism towards him, Shimon and Levis deed years before in Shechem, etc.) and therefore felt obligated to put himself in danger to show them how important respecting ones parent is.

The Maccabees showed similar valor. Although defying the Greeks was mandatory (due to the Greek war against Judaism), taking up arms against them was halachically questionable considering how poor their chances were as the few against the many and the weak against the strong. Why, then, did they endanger themselves? Because they were sons of kohanim gedolim (Rambam) respected spiritual personalities and, like Yosef HaTzaddik, they felt obligated to set an example for other Jews.

Hashem of course rewarded their extreme self-sacrifice by granting them victory in the war and miraculously making a jug of oil after their victory last eight days.

Happy Chanukah to everyone!

(Based on the Lubavitcher Rebbes teachings)

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Bringing Together Two Religions – Yu News

Posted By on December 21, 2019

The Yeshiva University Office of the Provost and the American Jewish Committee (AJC), a longstanding pioneer in interreligious relations, convened a meeting of American Muslim and Modern Orthodox Jewish leaders on Monday, Dec. 2, 2019, for conversations on the theme of Tradition and Modernity: Religious Identity and Civic Engagement in the United States.

The 12-member Muslim delegation was led by Imam Mohamed Magid, executive imam of the ADAMS Center, a mosque community based in Sterling, Virginia, with four branches serving over 25,000 Muslims in the Washington, D.C. area. (ADAMS stands for All Dulles Area Muslim Society.) Other members of the delegation included imams and university chaplains from Chicago, Detroit, Long Island, New Jersey and New York.

Welcoming the Muslim delegation to the University, Dr. Ari Berman, President of Yeshiva University, said: One of the core values of Yeshiva University is the role faith can and should play in contributing positively to the broader society. Our conversation with Imam Magid and his fellow Islamic American leaders on the opportunities our respective traditions can and should play in the betterment of mankind is inspiring for all involved, and we look forward to building a brighter future together.

The delegation met with faculty, students, rabbinic leadership and top administration officials to discuss the ways in which Jewish and Muslim communities navigate traditional and modern values to build spiritually resilient, intellectually open and civically minded religious identities.

They toured the Beit Midrash at the Jacob and Dreizel Glueck Center for Jewish Study and met with the roshei yeshiva [professors of Talmud] and faculty of the Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary, who described the rich religious culture of both the undergraduate programs and the rabbinical school. Several members of the Muslim delegation observed that the method of studying Talmud is very similar to the setting where they study the Quran and Islamic law.

Finally, the delegation met with the Dr. Selma Botman, provost and vice president for academic affairs, as well as Dr. Karen Bacon, the Mordecai D. Katz and Dr. Monique C. Katz Dean of Undergraduate Faculty of Arts and Sciences; Dr. Noam Wasserman, dean of the Sy Syms School of Business; Dr. Rona Novick, dean of the Azrieli Graduate School of Jewish Education and Administration; and Dr. David Berger, dean of the Bernard Revel Graduate School of Jewish Studies. They also met with faculty members of the Jewish studies programs.

These meetings took courage on both sides, but there is really no replacement for firsthand encounters, said Dr. Ari Gordon, U.S. Director of Muslim-Jewish Relations at AJC, who received his BA from YU in 2005. American Muslim communities are very engaged in interfaith activities, but exposure to the Orthodox Jewish community is still rare. Likewise, many Orthodox Jews only know Islam through the lenses of Jewish history or the news.

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This Week’s Torah Portion: Seeing Our Believing Detroit Jewish News – The Jewish News

Posted By on December 21, 2019

By Rabbi Shaya Katz

Its that time of year. We pause our diets for oily treats; we break our bank accounts for some gifts; and we take time off to see our loved ones.

Despite never being mentioned in the Torah, the holiday of Chanukah is perhaps the most well-known holiday of the Jewish calendar. But why is that? Shouldnt Shavuot, the day of receiving the Torah, the foundation of our religion, get more press? Why dont we find ugly Pentecost sweaters in stores during the springtime? What is it about Chanukah that it penetrates secular culture and makes for such a recognizable holiday?

On the one hand, we can suggest an anthropological approach: Its theme of gift-giving fits in our highly commercialized society; its similar to Christmas and there is the overlap of timing. But there may be a reason that gets to the essence of this eight-day celebration, a theme that lies at the very core of what the holiday represents.

The Talmud records two seemingly disconnected statements of Rav Kahana, ultimately quoting Rav Tanchum. First, the chanukiah must be placed below 20 cubits high. Second, when Yosef was thrown in the pit and the verse says there was no water (Bereshit 37:24), it means to hint to us that there was no water, there were snakes and scorpions, which threatened Yosefs life. What is the connection between these two statements?

More specifically to our portion this week, if there were deadly snakes and scorpions in the pit, why would the brothers put Yosef in it? Reuvens plan was to return him to his father after the pit (37:22). But once Yosef emerged miraculously unscathed from such threatening animals, did the brothers not then realize that Yosef was to be protected?

Rav Baruch HaLevi Epstein, in his Torah Temimah (1902), explains that all of the above questions can be answered with the same theme: visibility. On the one hand, the pit was too deep, and Reuven never saw the snakes and scorpions. Similarly, when Yosef emerged unscathed, they didnt realize that his health was indicative of anything extraordinary. The pit was 20 cubits deep and prevented the brothers from knowing what happened. On the other hand, the purpose of the chanukiah is to make sure other people outside of our homes can see our candles glowing. Therefore, says Rav Tanchum, it must be placed lower than 20 cubits high.

As well say in the Al HaNissim prayer over Chanukah, You (HaShem) made a great and holy name in Your world, and for Your nation the Jews, You brought great salvation.

Part of Chanukah is rejoicing over our own redemption. But another part is showing our Jewish pride to the world. We unabashedly place our chanukiot by windows for the world to see; we put our Chanukah sweaters on, and we take advantage of all the holiday deals we can find because this is a holiday we celebrate publicly the pride of our traditions and our rituals.

We need to remind ourselves that we shouldnt hide, but rather celebrate that were Jewish.

Shaya Katz is rabbi at Young Israel of Oak Park.

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