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Why Bats Sleep Upside Down and The Secret of Yom Kippur – aish.com – Aish.com

Posted By on September 29, 2022

Why Yom Kippur is one of the happiest days of the year.

A few years ago, I had the privilege of awarding someone a medallion at an AA meeting, a celebration of a significant milestone of sobriety. I am always inspired from being among people who have the courage to admit their addiction, name their enemy, and confront it on a regular basis.

The recovery program is made up of 12 steps, and the meeting I attended addressed Step 8, which is to make a list of all persons we had harmed, and become willing to make amends to them all and Step 9, to make direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

People reflected on the experience of being willing to make amends with people, some whom they hurt and others they were hurt or injured by.Then one person got up and said something I found fascinating.When she arrived at this step in her recovery, she realized one of the people she most needed to make amends with was herself.The mistakes she had made, the excuses, missed opportunities, damaged relationships, sabotaged success she had caused herself, left her needing to be willing to forgive herself, to make amends with herself.

The next person who spoke disagreed and pointed out making it about ourselves is what got us into trouble to begin with. Amends is about others, it doesnt always have to be about the I, and that kind of thinking is misguided and can lead to bad outcomes.

I walked out of the meeting moved by both sides and thinking about this question. Who was right?

The Talmud reconciles two different statements of Reish Lakish. The first: Great is teshuva, repentance, as the penitents intentional sins are counted for him as unwitting transgressions. The second: Great is repentance, as ones intentional sins are counted for him as merits. The Talmud explains the seeming contradiction: When one repents out of love, a higher level of repentance, his sins become like merits, but when one repents out of fear, a lower level, his sins are counted as unwitting transgressions (Yoma 86b).

I understand how the power of teshuva can transform my mistakes, indiscretions, poor judgment, and intentional violations into accidental, careless ones.Picture a judge lightening a sentence because of good behavior and still putting criminal charges on the record, but lesser ones. But what does it mean that my intentional mistakes can become actual merits? How can those mistakes be turned into merits, virtues, assets, acting in ones favor?

Surprisingly, the answer can be derived from sleeping bats.

Many people know that bats sleep upside down but few know the reason. While bats can fly, they cant take off. Some birds can take off from a dead stop by simply flapping their wings, but bats cant. Birds wings are long and feathered and can generate enough thrust to achieve liftoff, but bats wings, as ScienceFriday explains, are basically large, webbed hands. Once airborne, a bat can use these webbed hands to sustain the flight over long distances and steer seamlessly, but they have a problem: they cant do the necessary flapping to take off.

Bats use the momentum from falling to take flight.

So what do bats do if they can fly but cant take off? The answer is they dont take off -- they fall down. During the night, they use their claws to climb up a tree. Once they get high enough off the ground, they drop, using gravity to gain momentum and they use the momentum from falling to take flight.

Perhaps this is the meaning of Talmud quoted above.Not all types of teshuva are equal. If you do teshuva because of fear of punishment, you dont want to suffer the consequence, then your fall can be considered accidental.

But if you do teshuva, not out of fear, but from love, enthusiasm and excitement then you are ready to fly and can use the momentum generated from your fall to give you lift, to take off, to discover things and achieve things you previously couldnt.

For many, Yom Kippur is a dreaded day, not only because of the physical pleasures we are denied but because they think it is a day to beat ourselves up, to rack ourselves with guilt, blame, fault, fear and dread.

Yom Kippur is not a day to beat ourselves up, to knock ourselves further down.

That couldnt be farther from the truth.The Mishna lists Yom Kippur as one of the two happiest days of the year.Yom Kippur is not a day to beat ourselves up, to knock ourselves further down.We are here to confront our mistakes, to think about failures and the times we have fallen, but to use them to give us the momentum, the energy, and the knowledge of how to fly.Your fall turns into your uplift, into flight.

In Steve Jobs Commencement Speech to Stanfords Graduating Class of 2005, he retold his story of getting fired from the company he created at the age of 30. It was the most devastating setback of his life. He fell and he fell fast. Though it could have destroyed him, Jobs explained to the graduates that getting publicly fired turned out to bethe best thing that could have happened to him.

Losing his position and success as the leader of Apple opened him up to express his creativity more freely. He started a company called NeXT, helped launch Pixar, reclaimed his role as CEO of Apple, and the rest is history. Failure opened Steve Jobs up to express himself more freely and forced him to create his way out of his rock bottom into the super-success he enjoyed at Apple. As he explained to the graduates: It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it.

J.K. Rowling has sold more than 500 million books and is one of the wealthiest women in the world, but in a commencement speech of her own she described that she needed to fall before she was able to fly. She described how at the time of her own graduation from college, her greatest fear was failurea fear that became reality seven years later as she struggled through single-parenthood, unemployment, and poverty all at the same time.

Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.

Failure, she said, revealed her true character:I stopped pretending to myself that I was anything other than what I was, and began to direct all my energy into finishing the only work that mattered to me I was set free, because my greatest fear had been realized, and I was still alive, and I still had a daughter whom I adored, and I had an old typewriter and a big idea. And so rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.

We make amends with ourselves not by excusing our fall but by transforming it into momentum to give us lift. The world gives us our fill of fear, worry and anxiousness. Lets resolve to change from love and longing, from lift.

We have made mistakes, we have fallen down sometimes in anger or outrage, sometimes in judgment and sometimes in envy.Yom Kippur is not about beating ourselves up, staying down, feeling sad, somber or guilty.

Consider what went wrong, why it went wrong, and use that knowledge to learn from it, to gain lift, to take flight and to ensure it doesnt happen again. We dont need to sell that many books or build a revolutionary company to achieve success in our lives. All we need is to get up after we have fallen and take flight.

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5 things to know about Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year – WDJT

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By Zoe Sottile, CNN

(CNN) -- Sunday is the start of Rosh Hashanah, also known as the Jewish New Year, which marks the beginning of the Jewish High Holy Days.

The millennia-old holiday is an occasion for reflection and is often celebrated with prayer, symbolic foods, and the blowing of a traditional horn called a shofar. This year's Rosh Hashanah marks the start of year 5783 in the Hebrew calendar.

Here's what you need to know about the history and meaning of Rosh Hashanah.

Rosh Hashanah has its roots in the Talmud, although it isn't entirely clear when the holiday was first celebrated. The Talmud says that the world was created on the first day of Tishrei, the seventh month of the Hebrew calendar. Jewish people celebrate Rosh Hashanah on the first and second days of Tishrei -- which usually line up with September or October in the Gregorian calendar.

Although it's not completely clear when Jewish people first celebrated Rosh Hashanah, the Book of Leviticus includes a passage in which God tells Moses that the first day of the seventh month is a day for rest, marked with the blowing of a horn. But it doesn't include the name Rosh Hashanah.

According to National Geographic, the earliest mention of Rosh Hashanah by name is found in the Mishnah, a Jewish legal text dated to 200 C.E.

"Rosh Hashanah" means "head of the year" in Hebrew, and the two-day holiday is considered a time to reflect and repent in anticipation of the coming year.

It is also referred to as the "day of judgment." The holiday traditionally calls on people to consider how they might have failed or fallen short in the past year -- and how to improve and grow in the coming year.

This is symbolized by one of Rosh Hashanah's most iconic traditions, taschlich, in which participants symbolically cast off their sins by throwing morsels of bread into a body of running water.

There are 14.8 million Jewish people around the world, and practices associated with Rosh Hashanah vary even within individual communities. People usually celebrate Rosh Hashanah by attending synagogue and refraining from work -- including schoolwork -- and sometimes the use of electronics. Families might also light candles at home

Rosh Hashanah is often celebrated with special foods, like apples dipped in honey, which symbolize the hope of a sweet year to come.

Challah bread, baked in round loaves instead of braids and dipped in honey, is also popular. So are pomegranate seeds and the head of a ram or fish -- to symbolize the "head" of the new year.

One of the most distinctive elements of Rosh Hashanah is the blowing of the Shofar's horn, a ram's horn. The blowing of the horn is used as a call to repentance during the holiday.

The horn is typically blown in the morning of both days of Rosh Hashanah. The unique instrument dates back thousands of years to the time of Abraham and Isaac.

Rosh Hashanah kicks off the High Holy Days, also known as the Ten Days of Penitence. The High Holy Days end with Yom Kippur, which is considered the most sacred of Jewish religious holidays.

Yom Kippur is also known as the Day of Atonement. It represents an opportunity for people to atone for their sins and ask for forgiveness from God and other people.

While Rosh Hashanah tends to be a joyful celebration, Yom Kippur is a more somber holiday often marked by fasting.

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New chapter in ‘lost Jewish library mystery’ as books returned to Lublin – The First News

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In 1930, the Lublin School of Sages was opened in Lublin. It was the birthchild of Rabbi Meir Shapiro (pictured) and at the time it was the largest and most modern Yeshiva in the world to educate future generations of rabbis. Press materials

A World War Two mystery has come a step closer to being resolved after two books from the lost religious library of what was once the largest Talmudic school in the world were returned to Lublin.

The religious books from the original collection in the Chachmei Lublin Yeshiva were found in a university library in Berlin by one of its employees. Both copies bear the stamps of the Yeshiva library.

Agnieszka Litman, an animator of the Lublin branch of the Jewish Religious Community in Warsaw, said: "The finder contacted us and expressed his wish to return these books to their original place. This is an exceptional event for us.

It is historically important because finding each such book shows the fate of this book collection and allows us to reconstruct a piece of history.

Agnieszka Litman from the Lublin branch of the Jewish Religious Community in Warsaw, said:Jewish Community in Warsaw, Lublin Branch

The history of the Lublin Yeshiva library is shrouded in mystery as it is not fully known what happened to it.

Many believe that the collection was burnt by the Germans, though no official images or records of such a book burning exist.

However, it is known that part of it was hidden and after the war sent to Warsaw in 1946, which is where the trail ends.

Books from the library have been found in Israel and in the Jewish Historical Institute in Warsaw.

Both copies bear the stamps of the Yeshiva library.Press materials

In 1930, the Lublin School of Sages was opened in Lublin. It was the birthchild of Rabbi Meir Shapiro and at the time it was the largest and most modern Yeshiva in the world to educate future generations of rabbis.

This formidable edifice was financed from contributions of Jewish communities from all over the world. The academy revived the traditions of Talmudic studies which flourished in Lublin in the Old Polish period.

The Talmudic school had to have a religious library to match it.The plan was to collect 100,000 books.

Piotr Nazaruk of the Grodzka Gate - NN Theatre Center, which runs the Digital Yeshiva Library that recreates digitally the schools pre-war book collection, said: Committees formed all over Poland donated thousands of books to Lublin from institutions and private donors.

After Shapira's death, his private book collection found its way here.

The original collection in the Chachmei Lublin Yeshiva was once the largest Talmudic school in the world. The fate of the library is one of the biggest wartime mysteries of Lublin.Teatr NN.pl/Album Yeshivas Chachmey Lublin, edited by N. Gurman, Warsaw, 1931

The formidable edifice was financed from contributions of Jewish communities from all over the world. The academy revived the traditions of Talmudic studies which flourished in Lublin in the Old Polish period.Wiki

At the end of the 1930s, it was one of the biggest and most valuable Jewish religious libraries in Poland.

The collection included copies of the Talmud, which is a commentary on the biblical Torah that explains how to observe the law contained in the Torah.

It also contained the Holy Scriptures as well as works created over the centuries by rabbis concerning morality or principles of Judaism.

There were no works in Polish in the book collection, even Yiddish appeared rarely and religious works written in Hebrew dominated.

The fate of the library is one of the biggest wartime mysteries of Lublin. Stories handed down in the city say that the Germans burned the books in a huge fire that raged for many hours.

Many believe that the collection was burnt by the Germans, though no official images or records of such a book burning exist. An artistic rendering of the destruction of the Yeshiva Library. A detail from a 1954 certificate of appreciation from Yeshivas Chachmei Lublin in Detroit (established by the Lublin Yeshiva students after the war) to Rabbi Eliezer Silver (Cincinnati Judaica Fund).Teatr NN.pl/ Cincinnati Judaica Fund

Nazaruk said: This version does not hold water and is not corroborated by either documents or accounts.

The Germans not only did not destroy the book collection but also secured it very carefully. However, we do not know what their plan was for it.

Shortly after the liberation of Lublin, documents, press accounts and accounts of the library staff began to appear saying that the Yeshiva's book collection had survived.

It is believed that at the end of the war the collection, or at least part of it, was stored in another library building in Lublin.

According to Nazaruk: It came under the care of the Jewish Committee, then in 1946, the committee sent the book collection to Warsaw, which is where the trail ends.

Piotr Nazaruk of the Grodzka Gate - NN Theatre Center has dismissed suggestions that the books were burnt saying such accounts are not corroborated by either documents or accounts.The Germans not only did not destroy the book collection but also secured it very carefully. However, we do not know what their plan was for it.Brama Grodzka center

Eight decades later, when Nazaruk was browsing through the digital resources of the Institute when he came across a few books with clear Yeshiva stamps.

Out of more than six hundred Jewish old prints digitized by the Jewish Historical Institute, 130 had the stamp of the Lublin Yeshiva.

It is highly probable that there are many more books with such stamps in the JHI collection, although it is certain that the entire collection is not there.

Some books from the collection have also appeared on online auction sites. Nazaruk has found others in the National Library of Israel.

It is unknown how the books returned from Germany arrived in the Berlin university librarys collection.

The books will now be visually inspected and, if their condition allows, they will be digitized. Eventually, they will be displayed in the Yeshiva museum on Lubartowska street in Lublin.Jewish Community in Warsaw, Lublin Branch

There are physically only five books from the library presently in Lublin and are held in the Yeshiva by the Jewish community.

The Yeshiva Digital Library run by Nazaruk contains nearly 260 books, with descriptions and links to individual libraries.

The books from Berlin have now joined those copies that the Jewish Community already hold.

First, they will be visually inspected and, if their condition allows, they will be digitized.

Eventually, they will be displayed in the Yeshiva museum on Lubartowska street in Lublin.

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Allegiance To The Monarch – aish.com – Aish.com

Posted By on September 29, 2022

In 1972, Rabbi Yaakov Asher Sinclair opened SARM Studios the first 24-track recording studio in Europe where Queen mixed Bohemian Rhapsody. His music publishing company, Druidcrest Music published the music for The Rocky Horror Picture Show (1973) and as a record producer, he co-produced the quadruple-platinum debut album by American band Foreigner (1976). American Top ten singles from this album included, Feels Like The First Time, Cold as Ice and Long, Long Way from Home. Other production work included The Enid In the Region of the Summer Stars, The Curves, and Nutz as well as singles based on The Hitchhikers Guide To The Galaxy with Douglas Adams and Richard OBrien. Other artists who used SARM included: ABC, Alison Moyet, Art of Noise, Brian May, The Buggles, The Clash, Dina Carroll, Dollar, Flintlock, Frankie Goes To Hollywood, Grace Jones, It Bites, Malcolm McLaren, Nik Kershaw, Propaganda, Rush, Rik Mayall, Stephen Duffy, and Yes.In 1987, he settled in Jerusalem to immerse himself in the study of Torah. His two Torah books The Color of Heaven, on the weekly Torah portion, and Seasons of the Moon met with great critical acclaim. Seasons of the Moon, a unique fine-art black-and-white photography book combining poetry and Torah essays, has now sold out and is much sought as a collectors item fetching up to $250 for a mint copy.He is much in demand as an inspirational speaker both in Israel, Great Britain and the United States. He was Plenary Keynote Speaker at the Agudas Yisrael Convention, and Keynote Speaker at Project Inspire in 2018. Rabbi Sinclair lectures in Talmud and Jewish Philosophy at Ohr Somayach/Tannenbaum College of Judaic studies in Jerusalem and is a senior staff writer of the Torah internet publications Ohrnet and Torah Weekly. His articles have been published in The Jewish Observer, American Jewish Spirit, AJOP Newsletter, Zurichs Die Jdische Zeitung, South African Jewish Report and many others.Rabbi Sinclair was born in London, and lives with his family in Jerusalem.He was educated at St. Anthonys Preparatory School in Hampstead, Clifton College, and Bristol University.

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Embracing a Spiritual Discipline of Reparations – Word and Way

Posted By on September 29, 2022

As American followers of Jesus, including Baptists, come to grips with the reality and implications of our countrys historical record of racist actions and structures such as slavery, lynchings, and systemic discrimination (housing, employment, education, segregation, etc.), the question of reparations inevitably must be addressed.

Lee Spitzer

This is precisely what the Executive Committee and the General Council of the Baptist World Alliance did at their meetings in Birmingham, Alabama, on July 9-15, 2022. Their combined witness is historic in nature, not only for Baptist organizations and conventions, but also for individual Baptists who seek to pursue justice, peacemaking, and racial reconciliation in conformity with Jesuss vision of the kingdom of God.

The Executive Committee approved a comprehensive statement on restorative racial justice and flourishing freedom (BWA Executive Committee Statement 2022-07.1). This Birmingham Statement reviews the BWAs history of rejecting racism in all its manifestations, while also calling its membership to more perfectly embody Jesuss redemptive message of flourishing freedom.

The Birmingham Statement provides a basic Biblical justification for reparations. As God liberated the Jewish slaves from oppression in Egypt, the redemption enacted by the Lord included a mass payment of reparations to the whole of a group enslaved along the lines of race for their benefit and the benefit of their future generations as a crucial part of restorative justice in a holistic vision of flourishing freedom.

Turning to the New Testament, the statement cites the story of the tax collector Zacchaeus: Zacchaeus demonstrates the double requirement to give a general donation to the poor and to pay reparations to those who had been wronged. Not only did Zacchaeus actions bring just restoration to those who had been abused, reparations also had the profound effect of freeing the oppressor as well. Jesus offers liberation to the oppressed and oppressor.

The General Council approved two resolutions on restorative racial justice. BWA General Council Resolution 2022.3 affirms that restorative justice involves intentional actions to repair and restore human relations with God and one another, as a foreshadow of the flourishing freedom found in the Kingdom of God.

A companion resolution on slavery reparations (BWA General Council Resolution 2022.4) acknowledges the enduring generational impacts of slavery and calls for reparations to repair the damage for wealth stolen from centuries of forced labor. While calling on Baptist churches, colleges, unions, and other institutions to honestly face their participation and benefits gained from slavery, the resolution also urges Baptist individuals and institutions to participate in reparations conversations in their own communities and national governments.

In most discussions on reparations, the focus is on institutional responses (from governments, institutions, and organizations). However, for several years, I have been personally wrestling with the question of how individuals especially disciples of Jesus Christ should participate in making reparations to neighbors near and far who have suffered from centuries of racism, discrimination, and oppression.

Setting aside political and partisan divisions regarding collective guilt and judgments regarding economic systems, my personal response to reparations has been informed by an evolving sense of personal stewardship and gratitude concerning Gods abundant care for my family.

Although our ancestors came to the United States in the late 19th and early 20th century as poor Jewish immigrants escaping from oppression in Eastern Europe and thus did not participate in the evil of the slave trade, successive generations rose up the economic ladder and moved into the American middle class. Although my own father never earned more than a $25,000 salary in his lifetime, nevertheless I moved from the projects (apartment buildings) in Far Rockaway, Queens to a modest home in the suburbs of Long Island, where eventually I met my future wife in high school. She and I went to get secure doctoral degrees in our fields, and after decades of satisfying careers, are transitioning to full retirement, financially secure through pensions, savings, investments, and Social Security.

As I review the arc of our professional careers, two convictions speak to my soul. First, even though my wife and I can rightly claim that we worked hard to achieve the lifestyle we presently enjoy, nevertheless it is also true that we have benefited from a social order that provided greater opportunities to White people than have been afforded to Black and other minority peoples. We have lived on land that was originally possessed by indigenous people and grew up in a town and prospered in an excellent school system where they were few Black people. We had advantages that others did not enjoy and that we were not fully aware of.

Second, with prosperity comes increased responsibility. Biblical stewardship calls dedicated disciples of Jesus to live and serve with a sacrificial heart. For half a century, we have practiced the discipline of tithing, not for legalistic reasons but out of a motivation of thankfulness for Gods redemption and presence. With increasing prosperity, the discipline of generosity, as expressed by Jesus, became a major theme: It is more blessed to give than to receive (Acts 20:35). In the past two decades, responsibility for the poor has come to the fore as a motivation. Paul advised, Share with the Lords people who are in need (Romans 12:13).

Practically speaking, for individuals, discerning how to share with the poor is similar to deciding how to make reparations to people and communities that have been exploited by injustice and evil practices such as slavery. These responsibilities call for not token responses, but for ongoing, intentional, and targeted sharing of ones wealth. In other words, reparations as a lifestyle decision must be practiced as a spiritual discipline.

Although offering reparations is a societal collective responsibility, there is a Biblical basis for individual followers of Jesus to exercise agency and take personal responsibility for their own stewardship. Members of the Jerusalem church sold real estate and mediated by the church, distributed assistance to anyone who had need (Acts 4:34-35).

How might we follow their example in todays world? There is not a single response, but rather a multiplicity of creative options, based on ones own sense of responsibility and circumstances. My family has experimented with a basket of practices to attempt to embrace reparations as a spiritual discipline. I share them with readers not to garner approval or critique, but rather to illustrate possibilities. These strategies are not prescriptive but descriptive. I am sharing our story hoping to hear how others have sought to live out reparations as a spiritual discipline and to encourage a greater discussion on this important issue.

Financial giving may express a commitment to reparations and a broader commitment to the poor on many levels. In many of our churches, there is something akin to a Deacons Fund, which is designated for aiding those in economically challenging circumstances. Churches may surely designate a portion of such offerings to reparations-related projects.

Commitment of Specific Income Streams

In addition to such offerings, our family had decided to tie income to the spiritual discipline of reparations. Specifically, we have committed a segment of our income stream to this effort by designating the royalties from the sales of my book on friendship to provide ministry grants to churches serving economically poor and disadvantaged neighborhoods in our state. We do not even receive the money; it goes straight to our states regional denomination organization, and it decides on what churches will receive anti-poverty ministry grants.

Investment in Disenfranchised Communities

In addition to designating income, we wish to offer reparation through investing in disenfranchised communities. Accordingly, we have decided to place a certain percentage of our savings in community investment notes offered by Calvert Impact Capital, which seeks to proactively finance solutions to climate change and inequality around the world. These notes provide microloans for small businesses and invest in housing for the poor, among other goals. We earn interest from these investments, just like we would from a commercial banks certificates of deposit, but the principal provides hope and a chance to succeed to people who dont have access to the commercial banking system.

Impactful Philanthropic Support

In an attempt to take tithing to the next level, our family established a family charitable fund to support a diverse array of ministries throughout the world. Through the growth of its investments, during retirement we hope to donate to Gods work at least as much as we tithed during our working years. This impact-centered strategy targets ministries according to selected themes, with ministry to the poor being one such priority. Most major brokerages (Fidelity, Vanguard, etc.) offer this option.

Impactful philanthropic support has three potential advantages over traditional weekly tithing. First, over time it enables us to donate more than the original amount of tithes. As investments accumulate value, more funding may become available for the work of Gods kingdom (Matthew 25:14-30).

Second, a philanthropic strategy opens up possibilities for personal involvement and partnership with those who benefit from grants, donations, and gifts. The Talmud indicates that acts of kindness are superior to charity in part because charity can be performed only with ones money, while acts of kindness can be performed both with his person and with his money (Sukkah 49).

Third, the giving of personal tithes and offerings usually end when a person dies. In contrast, rightly structured, family charitable funds may be administered by ones children (or other heirs) so that our legacy of giving will continue beyond our lifetimes. This is particularly significant regarding reparations. If we have benefited from past acts or systems of injustice, it seems appropriate to respond by creating means of reparations that will redemptively influence the future.

Moving beyond stultifying guilt, the spiritual discipline of reparations embraces humility, repentance, caring, generosity, and self-sacrifice, in response to past social injustices and Jesuss articulation of the values of the kingdom of God. It represents a constructive way forward for serious disciples of Jesus to express genuine sorrow for peoples who have been harmed in the past and solidarity with those who presently are placed in difficult life situations because of past and continuing injustices.

I do not pretend to have a definitive understanding of how to articulate a spirituality of reparations or how to fulfill its calling as a spiritual discipline. However, as I read and study the new Baptist World Alliance statement and resolutions, I am convicted that each individual disciple must take action and not passively wait for society and government to respond. How have you been led by God to offer reparations for Americas participation in slavery and other injustices done to communities within our society?

Rev. Dr. Lee B. Spitzer is the former general secretary of the American Baptist Churches USA and the current historian for Baptist World Alliance. He is also the author of Baptists, Jews, and the Holocaust: The Hand of Sincere Friendship.

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Huntsville’s Temple B’nai Sholom encourages the community to visit the historic synagogue – WZDX

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Rabbi Scott Colbert with Temple B'nai Sholom encourages the community to attend their services and says their congregation is "thriving."

HUNTSVILLE, Ala. The Jewish holiday, Rosh Hashanah, also known as the Jewish New Year, concluded recently and Yom Kippur is just around the corner.

Rabbi Scott Colbert in Huntsville wants to share their religion with the growing community.

Temple B'nai Sholom has been in Huntsville since 1899 and it's the oldest standing synagogue in Alabama.

"The congregation was founded in 1876. There were enough people to build a congregation. All it took was ten adult Jews. And then in 1899, they obviously had enough to build this incredible building here on Lincoln and Clinton," Colbert said.

Rabbi Scott Colbert became the interim rabbi three months ago and he's making it his mission for the community of Huntsville to know they're here.

"What I'm seeing is a rebirth in this congregation. We are alive, we are thriving, and we want to serve this community as Temple B'nai Sholom has served since 1876."

The Jewish New Year, Rosh Hashanah, came to a close Tuesday evening.

Colbert says this holiday happens during the seventh month of the Hebrew calendar at the conclusion of the harvest.

"Just like in the secular New Year on January 1st, it's a time to say, have I met the goals that I set for myself last year? What goals didn't I keep and how am I going to improve for the coming year? And of course, the whole idea of sin in Hebrew, the word is "Hhatah" and literally means 'missing the mark'."

And Yom Kippur, also known as the day of atonement and the holiest day, comes 10 days after the Jewish New Year, and it's a time for introspection.

"On Yom Kippur we have the opportunity to ask forgiveness from god, from our neighbor, from our community, from each other, and most importantly, to forgive ourselves."

Rabbi Colbert says they are a welcoming and inclusive Reform congregation, "our doors are open. We do not charge for holy day tickets. We would love to have as many people come here to observe Yom Kippur with us as possible."

And those who are not Jewish but are interested in learning more, Colbert invites you to attend their regular Sabbath eve services that happen on Friday evenings at 7PM.

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The synagogue is in the street: On Yom Kippur, Tel Aviv shows another side of itself – Forward

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People ride bicycles in the middle of carless roadways in Tel Aviv on Yom Kippur 2014. Photo by Ilia Yefimovich via Getty Images

By Hillel KuttlerSeptember 28, 2022

TEL AVIV Welcome to Israels loudest and most frenetic city. Traffic. Construction. Nightlife.

And then, on just one day a year Yom Kippur quiet.

The city is like a volcano of noise, and suddenly the volcano is silenced. Even the thieves go to shul. The lifeguards are off, said Rony Sagman, a retiree who lives in the center of town.

Tel Avivs vibe on the holiest day of the year fits the occasion, a respite to fast and reflect. Whats surprising in this city, which many Israelis consider the countrys secular capital, is that Yom Kippur has also endeared itself to the non-observant.

They too look forward to 25 hours when the stores and restaurants are shuttered, and the cars and buses are still. For them it is a day of mellow distractions. On Yom Kippur non observant Tel Avivians take bike rides on the Ayalon Freeway safely, because people refrain from driving.

The night before, as soon as the Kol Nidre prayer and the Maariv service conclude, thousands of congregants head to the promenade to stroll and schmooze with family and friends. They stay for hours amid the throngs who didnt spend the evening in shul.

I first experienced Tel Aviv on Yom Kippur five years ago, thanks to my son Gil, then 20, who convinced me that instead of heading back to our hotel after the Kol Nidre service, we should walk the promenade, and head to Frishman Beach.

We found a bench to schmooze. An older French couple sat next to us. Five 20-something English speakers clustered nearby, deep in conversation. Native Israelis claimed another bench. We chatted in our best clothes, steps from the sand and waves. Not far from us, children and teens in T-shirts and shorts the offspring of secular Jews glided down Frishman Street onto the promenade on their bikes and trikes.

I felt a new kinship with Tel Aviv that night, when the city shows another side of itself a calm but still convivial side that is all the more special for coming only once a year.

I appreciated the uncommonly tranquil crowds in Tel Aviv on Yom Kippur, but did others notice it, too? As the Day of Atonement approached this year, I decided to find out.

I headed to a tiny synagogue founded about a century ago by immigrants from Skierniewice, Poland, about a mile from Frishman Beach. There I found my focus group. Six people in their 60s, 70s and 80s gathered for a weekly study session on the Bible and Talmud, and to chat and nosh potluck-style.

They welcomed me into their circle, and I, deftly as I could, turned the subject to Yom Kippur in Tel Aviv.

They lit up. Magical, one said. Mystical, said another. Peaceful, said a third.

They, too, saw the respect Yom Kippur seems to evince in the non-observant, who avoid driving and turn the volume low on their televisions and radios if they turn them on at all.

And that appreciation came not only from the religious but from the secular members of the group.

One, Eden Cohen, teaches theater at a Tel Aviv elementary school, commuting daily from Kibbutz Maagan Michael. She defines herself as not secular, but a secular person who believes. Shes bothered by what she said is her kibbutz neighbors engaging in the animalistic, hedonistic activities of grilling meat and swimming in the pool on Yom Kippur. Thats why shell again stay in town at her daughters apartment on the holiday.

Theres a certain holiness in Tel Aviv, she said.

Before moving back to the kibbutz, Cohen lived in this city for 30 years. She recalled her secular neighbors on Moshe Dayan Street arranging their plastic chairs into a circle and gabbing on Yom Kippur night. It was a picnic without food, she said. The idea was: Lets enjoy the night air.

Naftali Fishpan, a retiree living in the Florentine neighborhood, concurred. Walking in the middle of near-empty streets, seeing neighbors socializing outside, you feel the specialness, he said. In Tel Aviv, the synagogue is in the street.

Fishpans own Yom Kippur observances reflect what he admires about his city on that day. He said he fasts not because of the religious aspect, but because this is what Jews around the world do, and I want to feel connected to them.

His friend Sagman said hes likely to spend Yom Kippur sunning with friends at Banana Beach, about a half-mile south of Frishman. They bring cake and coffee, but partake modestly, because of the holiday not in front of other people, he explained. Most striking at the beach on that day, hes noticed, is that air pollution dissipates in the absence of vehicular traffic, allowing him to gaze further into the horizon.

The rest of Yom Kippur, Sagman said, he walks around town to make the most of the tranquility and the opportunity to bump into friends and acquaintances he likely wouldnt find on the streets on other days.

Therein lies an opportunity for Tel Aviv to create an oasis year-round, observed the lone American in the study group, Michael Alkow, a retired architect living in the city center.

Alkow, who regularly attends synagogue services, would like to see the seaside promenade extended over the parallel road, Herbert Samuel Street, to create a wider beach and buffer from the hubbub. Athens and Florence feature large, pedestrian-only zones, he said why not Tel Aviv?

Its the whole idea of making a city a more enjoyable place to live, he said. Its something to think about on Yom Kippur. Well leave that to future generations.

Some days after I queried the study group, I thought Id get a particularly authoritative data point viewpoint for my admittedly unscientific survey on Yom Kippur in Tel Aviv.

I called Yisrael Meir Lau, the countrys former chief rabbi and a Tel Aviv resident for more than six decades.

The sentiment doesnt surprise me, he said. Tel Avivians respect for Yom Kippur is deep in our roots.

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A Long Island synagogues renovations uncover a massive work of art – Forward

Posted By on September 29, 2022

The sculpture uncovered at the Merrick Jewish Centre in Merrick, New York Photo by Brad Kolodny

By Brad KolodnySeptember 22, 2022

The massive mirrored wall in the lobby of the Merrick Jewish Centre struck many in the congregation as outdated. More than 14 feet high from floor to ceiling, and 12 feet wide, it worked for the Long Island synagogue when it was installed about three decades ago. Then it seemed modern, and gave the illusion of a much larger space.

But tastes change, and this spring, the congregations leaders, as part of a larger renovation project, decided to take the mirror down.

Behind it was a layer of sheetrock, and behind the sheetrock was a work of art some congregants did not know existed, and others had mostly forgotten.

I was both stunned to see what we had been concealing for decades and confused as to why we permitted it to happen in the first place, said synagogue president Howard Tiegel.

What was revealed was a relief sculpture, made primarily out of concrete, divided into 16 prefabricated sections, each depicting a three-dimensional abstract shape or a Jewish symbol.

Gray predominates, but the eight human figures each posed climbing or reaching are black or brown. Theres some damage in a few places where studs attached the sculpture to the sheetrock.

As the High Holidays approach, many of the synagogues 600 congregants will step into the freshly carpeted and wallpapered lobby, and get a first look at the 62-year-old sculpture.

They will likely wonder about the piece who created it, and what will happen to it now. The first question is easier to answer.

At the bottom in the center the work is the creators signatures and the date it was made: Nocito Schwartz 1960.

George Nocito was a sculptor and academic who came to prominence in the mid-20th century and specialized in bas relief. He died in 1977.

His partner in the Merrick Jewish Centre project was Bert Schwartz, who died in 1993 and whose kinetic works include The Dancing Rabbi and The Judo Dancers. One of his bronze sculptures, depicting six heads of President John F. Kennedy, each with a different facial expression, stood in front of a luxury Queens apartment building until Schwartz and residents in 1966 decided it was unsuitable for the site.

Nocito and Schwartz drew on several 20thcentury artistic styles symbolism, expressionism, and cubism but have created something highly original at the Merrick Jewish Centre, said Samuel Gruber, an American art and architectural historian who is president of the International Survey of Jewish Monuments, a nonprofit dedicated to conserving historic Jewish sites.

He called the work unique, and said it should be preserved. The generation after the generation that installed the sculpture likely found it dated, he said. But the pendulum swings and there is now much interest and appreciation of the work of midcentury artists.

Merrick Jewish Centre is just beginning to ponder the future of the artwork, which would be difficult to move. Its leaders plan to reach out to Grubers group and the Jewish Historical Society of Long Island for guidance.

Tiegel hopes the piece will be appreciated by the congregation as it was two generations ago.

This art is part of the nearly 100-year history of our congregation and community and should be seen and restored in the days to come, he said.

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Synagogues exit pandemic with reflection, determination and hope for the future – Ynetnews

Posted By on September 29, 2022

The COVID pandemic is over, at least according to U.S. President Joe Biden in his recent declaration. But the past two and a half years have been a time of personal and professional struggle for many, including synagogues where those two worlds more often than not collide.

Synagogues, like other centers for communal gathering, found themselves closed and later severely restricted by measures taken to counter the spread of COVID-19 after the outbreak began in early 2020. Working to ensure their communities were safe and supported has proven a challenge for religious leaders all over the world.

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Jewish ceremonies via zoom, 2021

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So how did these houses of worship for many the center of rites of passage, communal life and comfort in dark days fare when forced to consider huge compromises to keep serving their community or even shutting their doors altogether? How do they feel now, when life is finally returning to a form of normal, even if it is a new normal, on the eve of a New Year in the Jewish calendar?

Its been an enormous challenge holding the community together during the pandemic when everything is about isolation and separation. The whole role of synagogues is to hold community together, says Rabbi Michael Cahana of Congregation Beth Israel in Portland, Oregon.

And it was a problem that was not unique to American congregations. Faced with the prospect of closed synagogues, fragmented congregations, and lonely congregants, rabbis, and other clergy swung into action to keep their communities together on holy days and regular ones.

The first word that comes to mind is challenging, claimed Rabbi Joseph Dweck of the Bevis Marks Orthodox Sephardi synagogue in London. Its been very difficult because we went through a period of two years in which the community and congregation simply could not come together physically.

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Rabbi Joseph Dweck of Bevis Marks synagogue in London delivering a lesson via Zoom, June 9, 2020

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Creativity immediately came into play, with rabbis adapting traditional prayers and services for members who were no longer able to share the same space. In a nutshell, thank God for Zoom.

We had to adjust tremendously, and we reached out and maintained connections and cohesion with the community and that entailed everything from doing shopping, making phone calls to members, making sure that they were okay, Rabbi Dweck recalls. We did programming for our members so that there was a whole bunch of things that we do on Zoom.

We really had to be able to innovate and to anticipate how we hold the community and support the community in this very difficult time, he says.

Keeping a sense of community was also vital to Rabbanit Bracha Jaffe of the Orthodox Hebrew Institute of Riverdale in New York City.

We in our shul [synagogue] really shifted fast, she said. We had many Zoom things [and] we offered meals and we ordered and delivered communally hundreds and hundreds of Pesach [Passover] meals.

Unlike their Orthodox counterparts who cannot use technology on the sabbath and holy days, Zoom was a useful tool for Reform and Conservative synagogues.

We closed the doors but we didnt miss any services, Rabbi Jason Rosner of Reform synagogue Temple Beth Israel of Highland Park and Eagle Rock in Los Angeles recalls of the first year of the pandemic.

When we closed, that weekend we were on Zoom. I edited together a customized siddur [prayer book] just for our community that was usable for Zoom. We changed the service to reflect a service that you would do on your own, he says.

For Rabbi Cahana, it meant adapting technology that was already in use on a regular basis.

We created lots of new programming that was really responsive to the needs of that time and how to directly communicate and have the kind of more intimate experience, he says.

One of the things that we found was that although weve been streaming for a long time, Zoom really allowed us to be much more intimate than we normally are; we moved our streaming into our homes so we were streaming from our living room into your living room and it created a very intimate feeling that we got a very, very positive response from.

With no Zoom option, Orthodox synagogues found other ways to balance COVID regulations and worship.

The nature of Orthodox shuls is that were not doing Zoom, so theres an upside and downside to that, says Rabbi Hyim Shafner of Kesher Israel synagogue in Georgetown, Washington.

The upside is you dont get wedded to Zoom and coming back in person is easier; the downside is that we couldnt use Zoom during COVID and so it was a little bit harder to really retain cohesion, he says.

With the Yamim Noraim [High Holy Days], we did things that we have genuinely never done before, because we had to keep a great deal of social distancing, and even with the social distancing we could not spend a good amount of time in the same space, says Rabbi Dweck.

I had to edit the prayer services, so I had to decide what was essential prayer and what was added prayer and to remove aspects of the service that would make the service longer and we had to innovate in terms of what we did, he shared.

We did a service of family bubbles; families could come with their children and sit all together but distanced from another family, he says. We did that for two years in various ways.

We had to be creative, Rabbi Shafner also says of keeping the sense of a communal celebration during restrictions.

We had shofar blowing in the national park thats about one block from the shul. That first year we had 100 people that came to the park for the shofar blowing for Rosh Hashanah.

At Shavuot instead of indoor learning at night, we used three peoples backyards, he says. We moved classes from one place to another, so people were learning all night but it was in the backyards outside.

Rabbanit Bracha says some of the changes they made for the first Rosh Hashanah lasted as time went on, and extended to every event in the Jewish calendar.

When people were alone for Pesach we buddied people up, we had teshuvot [rabbinical decisions] about being able to turn on your Zoom before chag [the holiday] so that you could Zoom in with your family if you didnt actually touch the computer if you had to, she says.

We had all sorts of things to do to make your Shabbat meaningful, spiritual, and feel less lonely, she says. So we actually offered a lot of ways for people to feel connected [despite] not coming to shul.

In that first Rosh Hashanah of uncertainty and isolation, Rabbi Cahana truly endeavored to make his Portland congregants still feel part of their community as they were forced to mark the festival at home.

We actually filmed the entire [Rosh Hashanah] service separately, he explained. It was a very complicated and strange experience because we were filming in the middle of the summer. We had a professional crew come in and do it, but we filmed everything out of order because we wanted to minimize the amount of time that people were together.

We spread the choir out throughout our sanctuary seating area so that they were far apart and then filmed all of the things that they were doing and filmed all of the things with our volunteer choir separately and then the clergy leading different parts of the services.

It was filmed like a movie and it was all edited together and the whole thing was filmed so that the experience of the people when we sent it out live for the people who were experiencing it, it was seamless.

To Rabbi Rosner, the key was making people feel that although some things had changed, it was still the same faith and same customs.

I think what we did to make people embrace [the COVID-induced changes] was that we really pivoted hard into different kinds of Jewish rituals that could be done without necessarily gathering in person, he says.

We attempted to do things that were similar, like a shofar wave where people blew the shofar across the city at the same time, he says. For Passover, we had a Seder on Zoom. It was crazy because it didnt sync up perfectly, but people really appreciated having that. We did High Holidays on Zoom as well and I read Torah on my inherited grandparents dining room table, which was quite touching.

The rabbi also leaned into the energy and youth of his congregation.

We really moved quickly to restructure our programming, rather than trying to force a square peg into a round hole, he says.

There was the sense that the people re-appropriated a lot of the home-based Judaism, the personal kind of hands-on stuff that had fallen by the wayside, the rabbi recalls.

A lot more people built a sukkah in their yard during the pandemic that had not done so before. We want to do hands-on stuff, so the idea of building a little backyard booth was very appealing. People used tools and they could collect their own schach [material for the roof of a sukkah] and so that was very fun for people.

Adapting familiar events to an unfamiliar situation was something that Rabbi Cahana also encountered.

Bnei mitzvah [bar and bat mitzvah service] was an interesting experience at the beginning of the pandemic, he says. We wound up bringing a Torah scroll to peoples homes and they would have the service in their home with the technology, and we would be in our home leading services and someone else would have an aliyah [call to read from the Torah] from their home so it was a kind of wild experience. But actually, kind of wonderful, people really enjoyed having that experience. Very different simchas [celebrations] but still it was something that was very unique and special.

Rabbanit Bracha recalls that at times her own home life took second place to the needs of her community, but, she says, that was her role.

I dont want to make it about me, its not about me but its about us as clergy who were there for other people, she says.

After more than two years of improvisation and adjustment, many now have what Rabbanit Bracha calls COVID keepers a phrase she adopted from a member of her congregation to refer to habits that were acquired during the pandemic that were worth maintaining.

I think its a beautiful term because its things that happened to us during COVID that we actually do want to keep, like having a Zoom for a funeral or for shiva or for smachot [festive occasions], she says.

For Rabbi Dweck of London, that means expanding his educational efforts well past the borders of his community, city, and even country.

Before COVID I wanted to do my classes on Zoom and it really didnt fly very well because people didnt know how to do it! he says.

And now because its the same thing as just getting on a phone call for most people, I started an entire learning platform called the chavurah [a small group gathering for Jewish learning or prayer] that basically has teachers from around the world and students from around the world studying the classical Sephardi approach to Judaism and Torah.

We have at this point almost 400 paid members in 20 countries around the world and the average subscriber is 25 years old. That would not have happened if it were not for COVID, he says.

Rabbi Cahana also sees the value in his synagogue continuing its emphasis on technology as an outreach tool.

Weve been streaming for years but it was in many ways an afterthought, he says. Weve now invested a lot in upping the technology and making it a more engaging experience. Because there are going to be people for whom its going to be a long time before they are comfortable being in large crowds and there are people for whom the accessibility issues are going to remain.

Rabbi Shafner says that his synagogue has adapted a Tisha bAv tradition to allow members of the congregation to take a more active role.

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Rabbi Hyim Shafner of Kesher Israel Congregation in Washington, DC, delivering a weekly sermon via video, July 17, 2020

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The first Tisha bAv we did on Zoom because Tisha bAv was one of the few days we could do on Zoom, he says.

I had different people in the congregation take one kina [elegy] and read it through and do a two-to-five-minute reflection, explaining this kina, this set prayer that we say on Tisha bAv or reflecting on a personal aim, he says.

It was the longest kinot we ever did, it was the best kinot we ever did because it wasnt just me saying a few words about a kina and then everybody saying it; it was people from the congregation sharing their thoughts and reflections.

This year, kinot were once again read inside the Georgetown synagogue, but we had members of the congregation, both men and women come up to the bimah before each kina and give their own personal reflection about it. And it was just wonderful.

Rabbanit Bracha also found her congregation stepping up to take a bigger role in services.

We tapped into people who never had led services before or blown the shofar before in shul, she said. And we just said whoever is willing to step up, we will be happy to have you because we have so many minyanim [public prayer services, to accommodate social distancing]. It was in many ways very beautiful because so many people wanted to have some sort of davening experience.

Lockdowns and limited gatherings have also taken their toll on most synagogues, with clergy facing the prospect of diminished attendance as life returns to a routine of unrestricted movement.

Ive spoken with many Jewish leaders and Jewish communities we still for the most part are struggling to meet the numbers we had before COVID, admits Rabbi Dweck. Its getting better, but its not where it was. So that is concerning.

Even so, he asserts, for many, the synagogue was a comfort throughout the pandemic.

One person said outright to me that in all the craziness and change thats going on, the synagogue is the one place thats stayed the same, he says.

And now that the High Holidays are upon them again, few are looking backward to the frustrations and fears of the recent past and are eager to welcome their congregations back with open arms and packed pews.

I firmly believe that people need connections, and human beings need to see other human beings in person, says Rabbi Dweck.

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Rabbi Jason Rosner of Temple Beth Israel of Highland Park and Eagle Rock in Los Angeles giving a teaching about Passover from his kitchen, April 6, 2020

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Rabbi Rosner agrees with the belief that humans need social interaction with other humans.

We try to encourage people to come back in person as much as possible, he says. We will be doing a livestream for the High Holidays this year but its really anathema to me personally. I really hate the idea that we would lose the in-person part, which is the preserver of our communities for as long as weve had them.

This year, Rabbi Shafners Georgetown congregation has a choice of Rosh Hashanah services with COVID health measures in place, but few people are taking advantage.

The shul is holding a mask optional service, but in another room in the synagogue we are going to do a mask-only service for the 20 or 30 people who really want that, he says.

Even without all the established history and long-standing congregation of other many synagogues, Rabbi Elie Abadi of Dubai is looking forward to the coming year, as his community also celebrates two years since the signing of the Abraham Accords between Israel and the UAE and Bahrain.

Its really very heartening to see that the community has grown, has matured, has diversified, and has given service not just to the Jews who live here but to Jewish tourists who are coming from all over the world to be part of it, he said.

We are looking forward to more growth in the future years to provide more services to the Jewish community, he says. May this year indeed bring peace, tranquility, an embrace between peoples and between nations, and may we not see any more war.

For Rabbi Cahana, the move out of the pandemic means a time to look back and take stock of the experience that the entire world has been through.

What Im looking forward to is understanding how were different, he says. He relates that both he and a cleric from the local Episcopal church discovered that their respective records from 1918 barely mentioned the Spanish flu outbreak.

The overall effect was that they didnt want to remember, they wanted to move past it and I dont want that to be the case. I dont want it to be that we try to pretend that the pandemic didnt happen, he says.

I think weve learned a lot about how important community really is and its easy to take it for granted. I think there are lessons like that that we really have to pay more attention to and its going to take us a while to figure out. I want to keep that present and not just say Oh now everything is back to the way it was. Because its not. Were changed and I want to learn how.

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For the Sin We Have Sinned by Making People Feel Unwelcome at Synagogues – Jewish Exponent

Posted By on September 29, 2022

Jeff Rubin

By Jeff Rubin

I have been shocked lately by the number of my friends who have left synagogues because of a pattern of unkind remarks from rabbinic and volunteer leaders. A Jew-by-choice belittled. A twenty-something shamed. A professional demeaned.

Jewish Twitter is full of accounts by Jews by choice or Jews of color who have been challenged, patronized or othered when they show up in Jewish spaces. Essayists lament that too many synagogues dont seem welcoming or sensitive to single parents or dont accommodate people with disabilities.Saying and doing hurtful things is not just ethically wrong, its destructive to organizations and has no place in the sacred communities that congregations strive to be.

As any marketer will tell you, it is far cheaper to keep a customer than to acquire a new one and synagogues cant afford to alienate a single congregant. With the ranks of the unaffiliated growing, according to Pews 2020 study, synagogue leaders need to watch what they say to keep, welcome and attract members.

The Pew study revealed that 7% of American Jews do not attend synagogue regularly because they dont feel welcome while another 4% say people treat me like I dont really belong. During my dozen years as a Hillel professional we invested heavily in training staff to create environments that welcomed and engaged Jewish students of all backgrounds, regardless of how they looked, loved or worshiped. My first encounter with Hillel when I was just a high school senior ended poorly: Visiting Boston Universitys Hillel, I was so put off by a comment that I didnt apply to the school.

Of course, this is a problem as old as Judaism itself.

On the first day of Rosh Hashanah, we read the story of Hannah, the distraught woman who came to the Tabernacle at Shiloh to pray for a cure for infertility. Eli the Priest, seeing her pray silently heretofore an unknown practice accused her of being drunk. The priest said to her, How long will you make a drunken spectacle of yourself? Sober up!Hannah replied, Oh no, my lord! I am a very unhappy woman. I have drunk no wine or other strong drink I have only been speaking all this time out of my great anguish and distress.

Then go in peace, said Eli, and may the God of Israel grant you what you have asked of Him.

What if Hannah couldnt muster the strength to defend herself and simply walked out of the Tabernacle and out of Judaism? What if Eli did not have the compassion to correct himself? Would Hannahs son, Samuel, have been raised to become a Jewish leader recognized by the three Biblical faiths as a prophet? How would Elis thoughtless remark have changed history?

The rabbis recognized the toxicity of insults and cited such remarks as a transgression in one of the oldest elements of the Yom Kippur service, the confessional, or Vidui. During the Vidui, worshippers strike their breasts and acknowledge that they have smeared others, dibarnu dofi. Medieval commentator Rashi said the word dofi means slander and that it derives from casting off as if by definition defamation leads to alienation. One prayerbook perceptively renders the phrase as, We have destroyed a reputation, a relationship, a communal bond.

Jewish literature is full of guides to proper communication and avoiding evil speech, or lashon hara from the Psalmists admonition, Guard your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking deceitfully, to the Talmudic Let the honor of your friend be as dear to you as your own, to Rabbi Yisrael Meir Kagans masterwork, the Sefer Chofetz Chaim, to Rabbi Joseph Telushkins excellent book, Words that Hurt, Words that Heal.But how do congregations turn wise words into action?

Linda Rich, a New York-based leadership coach who counsels synagogues and nonprofits, regards respectful communication as a core behavior for a successful congregation, and a congregation that lives the Jewish values it espouses. Discussion and disagreement are the signs of a healthy group, but in the Jewish context they should be civil and lshem shamayin, for the advancement of sacred work, not for other motives.

She recommends that volunteers and staff study the principles that are fundamental to Jewish life, and sign a covenant to uphold them. When individuals fail to do so they should be reminded politely, clearly and directly that they are a valued member of the congregation, but this behavior is unacceptable. Try to be positive: Point out that they can be even more effective leaders if they watch what they say and adjust their approach. The congregation should sponsor periodic surveys or other forms of evaluation to determine how well the group is fulfilling its duties and covenants.

On Yom Kippur, we reflect on our personal shortcomings, but we atone as a group. We do not seek forgiveness for the sin that I have committed through my words, but for the sin that we have committed through our words. Our individual words have collective impact. The High Holidays provide a golden opportunity to rethink how those words affect others and to take steps to change as individuals and congregations. JE

Jeff Rubin is a writer in the Baltimore-Washington area.

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