Empty chairs, mirrors and pomegranates: How Jews are bringing the war to their seder table – The Jerusalem Post
Posted By admin on April 20, 2024
As Jews around the world read the haggadah at their seder tables every year, they encounter a passage instructing them to see themselves as if they personally left Egypt. This year, some of them will also have on their seder tables a symbol of the perseverance of women traumatized in captivity.
In light of testimony that Israeli women have suffered rape and sexual assault at the hands of Hamas, Rabbanit Leah Sarna is encouraging seder participants to connect with the Israelite women of long ago by putting a mirror on their tables.
Those women, according to Jewish tradition, used mirrors in the course of reempowering themselves after facing sexual trauma a way, Sarna wrote in the Jewish publication Lehrhaus, of fighting to create Jewish babies and reclaiming their autonomy.
Recall the historic suffering and endurance of Jewish women past and present, and let us hope and pray that that same healing will someday be found by our brothers and especially sisters in Gaza being tortured today, Sarna wrote.
Sarnas mirror custom is one of many that rabbis, educators and Jewish organizations have put forward as Jews seek to use the ritual canvas of the seder as an opportunity to grapple with the Oct. 7 attack, the Israel-Hamas war and the estimated 130 hostages still held captive in Gaza.
The holiday, which begins Monday evening, comes as the war has passed the six-month mark, while Irans unprecedented attack on Israel has raised alarm throughout that country and beyond. Meanwhile, there is no immediate prospect on the horizon for the hostages release. In response, some of the new rituals add to the seders symbolism, while others seek to adapt age-old practices to the present day.
Something thats helpful and so beautiful about the seder ritual is this feeling of contextualization of Jewish oppression, Sarna, a rabbi and educator at the Drisha Institute for Jewish Education in New York City, told the Jewish Telegraphic Agency. The oppression and resistance of Jewish women, she said, has to be a part of that story.
She added, Its a part of our story now. And its been a part of our story, I would say, since Egypt, and I think we need to write it in more explicitly than we ever have before.
Sarna isnt the only one placing women at the center of her ritual innovation. This year, Jewish Women International is encouraging families to add flowers to their seder plates, as a way to stand in solidarity with the women of Israel to honor the memory of those who we lost at the hands of Hamas and other terrorists, to give hope to those who survived, and to share our strength with those who are still held hostage.
One Jewish website suggests adding pomegranates to the seder plate as a symbol of standing with Israeli women and offers a free two-page haggadah supplement on the topic. The practice of adding new items to the seder plate has been adopted in the past to draw attention to issues ranging from feminism to unjust labor practices.
Some are adapting rituals created for crises of recent decades. Next week, many seder tables will include an empty seat to represent the hostages a gesture that was made last year on behalf of jailed Wall Street Journal reporter Evan Gershkovich and, before that, for Soviet Jewry. Some families will place a yellow ribbon on their tables, a symbol that has come to represent advocacy for the hostages release, while some will also wear yellow.
Others hope to allude to the hostages by taking away from the seder table, rather than adding to it. In an essay for JTA, Rabbi Elie Kaufner suggests using less matzah at seders this year to draw attention to the feeling of absence.
With more than 130 of our people literally in captivity, the shock of seeing fewer matzot at the table, when we are used to seeing plenty, is appropriate, Kaufner wrote.
The new rituals come alongside the perennial bevy of supplements to the traditional haggadah text that seek to make the holidays themes relevant to the present day. This year, a number of haggadah supplements aim to help families discuss Oct. 7 and its aftermath during their seders from reimagining the Four Questions to reflections on other central Passover texts like Dayenu or the admonition that in every generation an enemy will attempt to destroy the Jewish people.
Rabbi David Lau, the chief Ashkenazi rabbi of Israel, shared a Passover prayer for the release of the hostages, meant to be recited before that passage. The prayer asks God to bless and protect our captive brothers and sisters, return them in peace to their families and homes and plant brotherhood, peace and friendship in the heart of all.
Others encourage adding new meaning to existing Passover customs.
In a blog post for the site Ritualwell, Rabbi Judith Edelman-Green suggests inviting seder attendees to write their own interpretations of the Ten Plagues. For blood, Edelman-Green writes, one could think of the young women and men who were brutally murdered at the Nova Festival on Oct. 7. For darkness, Where has Hope gone? Where is the Holy work of peace between peoples? Where is the government who takes care of her citizens?
Edelman-Green also offers a new way to think about the four children discussed during the seder. Instead of the traditional characterizations wise, wicked, simple and the child who does not know how to ask she suggests others, including a brave child to represent those who fought in the war, or the daughter who could not scream for the victims of Hamas sexual abuses.
The iCenter, a nonprofit focused on Israeli education, offers an online guide to 12 different moments in the seder, adapted for this year. From a reflection of a mother and daughter who have just returned to their home in Kibbutz Saad, to an exploration of art created to remember the hostages, the website reads.
The hagaddahs text recognizes that Jewish history repeats itself, something that Rabbi Danielle Upbin says makes new rituals superfluous.
Regarding the current crisis in Israel, no additional items are necessary, Upbin wrote in the Jewish Press of Tampa Bay. The traditional Passover Seder already speaks volumes. The Haggadah itself is a flavorful dissertation on the dichotomy between destitution and resilience, darkness and light, captivity and freedom. The Haggadah calls us to read the current crisis into its pages.
Sarna agreed that the seder is an inviting setting to discuss thorny topics. She said she recently heard from a friend who recalled being at a family gathering when two sisters began to argue about Israel.
And then they said, Oh, forget it. Lets leave it for the seder, Sarna recounted.
The seder itself describes, through the four sons, but also in other ways, groups of people who sit around having a seder arguing with each other and approaching things from really different perspectives, but they all come back to the table every year, Sarna added. And thats the best we can hope for this year.
Original post:
- 'You made the most of your life': Bergenfield teen given special burial in Israel - NorthJersey.com [Last Updated On: May 8th, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 8th, 2021]
- TV Recap: "Sydney to the Max" - Sydney Helps Olive Overhaul Her Big Day in "The Bat Mitzvah Planner" - LaughingPlace.com -... [Last Updated On: May 8th, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 8th, 2021]
- Who is speaking up for you here? - The Riverdale Press [Last Updated On: May 8th, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 8th, 2021]
- How interfaith relations will pave the way for an inclusive future in the Middle East - Gulf Business [Last Updated On: May 8th, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 8th, 2021]
- Rabbi Druckman: Gov't should be based on Jews, not others, no Ra'am - The Jerusalem Post [Last Updated On: May 8th, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 8th, 2021]
- Convinced he's dead, a young man asks a rabbi to recite mourner's prayer for him - The Times of Israel [Last Updated On: May 8th, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 8th, 2021]
- Rabbi Sally: Its time to find peace in your life - Desert Sun [Last Updated On: May 8th, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 8th, 2021]
- Rabbi taken to hospital after 'religiously-aggravated assault' in Essex - Echo [Last Updated On: May 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 23rd, 2021]
- Treasures from Archives of Rabbi Shmuel Lew Printed in Teshura - Anash.org - Good News [Last Updated On: May 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 23rd, 2021]
- Synagogue counts its blessings on 50th anniversary - The Jewish Standard [Last Updated On: May 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 23rd, 2021]
- 'Exceptionally scary': Lakewood Rabbi Weisberg, visiting Israel, reports on the violence - Asbury Park Press [Last Updated On: May 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 23rd, 2021]
- Defense attorneys learn from Utah rabbi's experience of being traumatized on the witness stand - Salt Lake Tribune [Last Updated On: May 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 23rd, 2021]
- How Jewish rituals can ease us back into the world J. - The Jewish News of Northern - The Jewish News of Northern California [Last Updated On: May 25th, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 25th, 2021]
- Jewish community responds to suspected hate crime in Lexington - ABC 36 News - WTVQ [Last Updated On: May 25th, 2021] [Originally Added On: May 25th, 2021]
- 'Day of Unity' offers comfort, outreach for women who lost relatives on Lag B'Omer - Cleveland Jewish News [Last Updated On: June 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: June 16th, 2021]
- Kindness Week bill, inspired by Rabbi Bulka, receives Royal Assent in Parliament - Ottawa Citizen [Last Updated On: June 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: June 16th, 2021]
- This rabbi wants the Jewish community more involved in boardroom battles for social justice - JTA News - Jewish Telegraphic Agency [Last Updated On: June 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: June 16th, 2021]
- Boxing rabbi heading back into the ring | The Pittsburgh Jewish Chronicle - thejewishchronicle.net [Last Updated On: June 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: June 16th, 2021]
- Hungarian Rabbi Will Be German Army's First Rabbi Chaplain Since the Holocaust - Jewish Exponent [Last Updated On: June 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: June 16th, 2021]
- From fire hazards to roaches: South Bend Housing Authority sites are among Indiana's worst - South Bend Tribune [Last Updated On: July 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 13th, 2021]
- Orthodox Union's Annual Tisha b'Av Program Will Address Recent Tragedies Across the Jewish World - Orthodox Union [Last Updated On: July 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 13th, 2021]
- Stepping outside the big tent with Rabbi Sid Schwarz - Washington Jewish Week [Last Updated On: July 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 13th, 2021]
- Broken bodies and grieving souls: A rabbi cares for the dead in Surfside - Forward [Last Updated On: July 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 13th, 2021]
- Orthodox, female and running their own shuls just dont call them rabbis - Haaretz [Last Updated On: July 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 13th, 2021]
- UK chief rabbi: Chilled meat ban could make Jewish life in N. Ireland unviable - The Times of Israel [Last Updated On: July 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 13th, 2021]
- Jewish Life in the Arab World: A Talk by Rabbi Elie Abadie, Senior Rabbi of the UAE Yeshiva University News - Yu News [Last Updated On: July 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 13th, 2021]
- 'Aggie Rabbi' Delivers Kosher Meals To USTS Kennedy - Texas A&M Today - Texas A&M University Today [Last Updated On: July 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 13th, 2021]
- Man Charged With Hate Crimes in Stabbing of Rabbi in Boston - The New York Times [Last Updated On: July 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 13th, 2021]
- A contrarian artist who took inspiration from a Hasidic rabbi and a Vietnamese general - Forward [Last Updated On: July 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 18th, 2021]
- Rabbi Tovia Singer, anti-missionary man, to speak at Beth Yeshurun later this month - Jewish Herald-Voice [Last Updated On: July 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 18th, 2021]
- Rabbi on speech at DC rally against antisemitism: 'Hiding has never worked' - LEX18 Lexington KY News [Last Updated On: July 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 18th, 2021]
- Temple Beth Sholom welcomes Altshuler as new rabbi - YourObserver.com [Last Updated On: July 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 18th, 2021]
- Rabbis and Their Pets - Atlanta Jewish Times [Last Updated On: July 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 18th, 2021]
- Rabbi Yoel Kahn, scholar who preserved Lubavitcher rebbes words, dies at 91 - The Times of Israel [Last Updated On: July 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: July 18th, 2021]
- Altercation: The Ghost That Stalks the American Jewish Establishment - The American Prospect [Last Updated On: August 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 13th, 2021]
- Meet Meir Goldberg: Business Opportunities Attracted Him to Israel The Jewish News - The Jewish News [Last Updated On: August 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 13th, 2021]
- Disney star Raviv Ullman is ready to be your new rabbi - Forward [Last Updated On: August 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 13th, 2021]
- The Best Of Our Knowledge #1612 "The Rabbi, The Choirmaster & The Pandemic" - WAMC [Last Updated On: August 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 13th, 2021]
- Making it their own - The Jewish Standard [Last Updated On: August 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 13th, 2021]
- JUF News | Return of the Rabbi - Jewish United Fund [Last Updated On: August 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 13th, 2021]
- Key detective in Neulander investigation charged with perjury in Philly case - Courier Post [Last Updated On: August 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 18th, 2021]
- I moved my family back in with my parents at the start of the pandemic. After a lovely year and a half, I'm rethinking the dream of the single-family... [Last Updated On: August 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 18th, 2021]
- Daily Joke: Priest Is Curious about a Sheet of Paper the Chief Rabbi Gives the Pope Every Year - AmoMama [Last Updated On: August 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 18th, 2021]
- Earth Etude for Elul 10: Too Much of a Good Thing, or When All You've Ever Wanted Is Really Too Much - jewishboston.com [Last Updated On: August 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 18th, 2021]
- Q & A With Rabbi Ahron Rapps - Yated.com [Last Updated On: August 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 18th, 2021]
- Rabbi Mark Asher Goodman: The start of a new year can be both scary and exciting - GoErie.com [Last Updated On: August 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 18th, 2021]
- Rabbi Yoel Kahn retires after 36 years of service to Bay Area Jews J. - The Jewish News of Northern California [Last Updated On: August 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 18th, 2021]
- A great leader dies -- and with him, a whole generation - Religion News Service [Last Updated On: August 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 18th, 2021]
- Rabbis Are Supposed to Offer Hope on the High Holidays. What if I Can't? - Jewish Exponent [Last Updated On: August 18th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 18th, 2021]
- Rabbis should offer hope on the High Holidays. What if I can't? J. - The Jewish News of Northern California [Last Updated On: August 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 20th, 2021]
- OUR CROWD: Honors, happenings, comings & goings Aug. 2021 J. - The Jewish News of Northern California [Last Updated On: August 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 20th, 2021]
- Rabbi Richard Hirsch, Who Eulogized Martin Luther King Jr., Dies at 95 - Jewish Exponent [Last Updated On: August 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 20th, 2021]
- How to Become a Rabbi: 9 Steps (with Pictures) - wikiHow [Last Updated On: August 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 20th, 2021]
- rabbi | Definition, History, & Functions | Britannica [Last Updated On: August 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 20th, 2021]
- News - A rabbi, a priest and a pastor - DVIDS [Last Updated On: August 22nd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 22nd, 2021]
- Lawsuit: Monsey rabbi sexually assaulted children and his bosses covered it up - Forward [Last Updated On: August 22nd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 22nd, 2021]
- Rabbi Hirsch recalled as giant in Reform movement - Cleveland Jewish News [Last Updated On: August 22nd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 22nd, 2021]
- Climate activists set their sights on the Pennsylvania Public Utility Commission - WHYY [Last Updated On: August 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 23rd, 2021]
- How can a Jewish State allow sculptures to be put on display when the Second Commandment bans making the form of anything? - J-Wire Jewish Australian... [Last Updated On: August 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 23rd, 2021]
- Pandemic or no pandemic, many places of worship say technology is here to stay - CBC.ca [Last Updated On: August 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 23rd, 2021]
- Keeping the Faith: Approach of Jewish New Year offers opportunities for reflection, hope - The Columbus Dispatch [Last Updated On: August 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 23rd, 2021]
- How one powerful song helped to heal 'Crown Heights' - Forward [Last Updated On: August 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 23rd, 2021]
- Area Rabbi struck by car; congregation bands, forms 'good deeds' drive - New Jersey Hills [Last Updated On: August 23rd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 23rd, 2021]
- Keep the Faith: We need the time to reset, renew - Worcester Telegram [Last Updated On: August 29th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 29th, 2021]
- CD Review: 'Hashkiveinu': Traditional Jewish songs for the 21st century - Rutland Herald [Last Updated On: August 29th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 29th, 2021]
- Synagogues plan for High Holy Days, taking on another year of COVID-19 - Wisconsin Jewish Chronicle - The Wisconsin Jewish Chronicle [Last Updated On: August 29th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 29th, 2021]
- Lehmann rekindles family connection as new head of Hausner school J. - The Jewish News of Northern California [Last Updated On: August 29th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 29th, 2021]
- Daily Joke: Preacher Struggles to Walk on Water Unlike the Rabbi and the Priest - AmoMama [Last Updated On: August 29th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 29th, 2021]
- Rabbi recounts heartrending year in Vietnam in new memoir J. - The Jewish News of Northern California [Last Updated On: August 29th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 29th, 2021]
- Man accused of stabbing rabbi in Brighton is very sick, his attorney said - Boston Herald [Last Updated On: August 29th, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 29th, 2021]
- Major Happenings Announced at the Hampton Synagogue - Dan's Papers [Last Updated On: September 14th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 14th, 2021]
- Pope Francis and Israels chief rabbi in dispute over the Torahs relevance to Jews - National Post [Last Updated On: September 14th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 14th, 2021]
- A Response to Rabbi Romain's and the former Archbishop Carey: There is indeed Biblical and Theological Opposition to Assisted Dying - The BMJ [Last Updated On: September 14th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 14th, 2021]
- 'Looking back on that day, there's so many emotions': Northbrook rabbi recalls his time at ground zero in 2001 - Chicago Daily Herald [Last Updated On: September 14th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 14th, 2021]
- Yom Kippur to be observed in Chino Hills with Rabbi Harlig - Chino Champion [Last Updated On: September 14th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 14th, 2021]
- US House of Representatives marks 9/11 anniversary with rabbis prayer - The Jerusalem Post [Last Updated On: September 14th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 14th, 2021]
- For This Rabbi Near Surfside, the High Holidays are for Processing Communal Grief - The Jewish News [Last Updated On: September 14th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 14th, 2021]
- From Houston to New Orleans with love: - Jewish Herald-Voice [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
- Leading rabbi connected to AIPAC calls for limiting aid to the 'fanatical,' violent Israel - Mondoweiss [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
- Ephraim Einhorn, longtime Taiwan rabbi with history of international intrigue, dies at 103 - Forward [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
Comments